Success in a long term, married relationship
There is no elevator to success in D/s|M
You have to take the stairs
Success is no accident…
Like most things in life, in order to achieve real success, you will need to put in the effort. Many Dominants want to find the hack or the shortcut to a successful D/s-M dynamic. The secret is that there is no shortcut to a sustainable long-term relationship. To be successful, you will need to be consistent and work at being the best that you can be every single day.
Dominance and submission within a marriage takes constant vigilance and nurturing. D|s-M is not the type of relationship where you can be lazy or believe that you can be active part-time, when it suits you. The Dominant is the Leader therefore, the Dominant has direct ownership of the success or the failure of the dynamic.
I never dreamed about success, I worked for it.”
If you want to find success in anything that you do, you will need to gain as much knowledge as you can absorb and practice the art relentlessly.
I can hear my father saying this right now,
“Nothing that is worth having ever comes easy.”
My Father
How to succeed in a Married Dominance and submissive relationship.
The greatest success comes when members thrust themselves into the lifestyle. This can be achieved by first living the lifestyle with your submissive. It doesn’t matter what your dynamic looks like; what matters is that you are present in your dynamic. Show up every day…
Next, join the husDOM community and begin to learn the language and the ropes, pun intended.
And if you ever find yourself asking for directions to the nearest elevator in your Dominance and submission relationship, stop and take the stairs.
