“I need/want to trust him that he is going to lead us down the right path, that his decisions are going to be what’s best for us/family. For the past 19 years I have made most of those decisions…”
For myself and LK we tried as diligently as anyone to make our marriage an equal partnership. We would both admit today that it wasn’t equal; I was making most of the important decisions in our relationship. We have always been on the same page but the fine details I usually dealt with. As I have mentioned before in other posts this trying to be equal scenario is a hotbed for arguments and hard feelings. Gaining Your subMrs Trust, Your Yoke to Take….. Take it.
A flight crew consists of only one captain and one first officer (co-pilot).
It is important to remember that a D/s relationship, especially a married D/s relationship, needs to be what works for the two of you. Do not measure yourselves with someone else’s yardstick; simply be yourselves and do what works for the two of you. Do not try and force your round butts into square pants.
“…AND I don’t know if I trust him enough to take complete control.”
I wouldn’t dream of just handing over the keys to the jet and ask him to start flying while you and the kids quietly buckle yourselves in and begin reviewing the passenger safety cards.
A submissive is handing over her control that does not mean that she can longer contribute. LK has certain qualities and attributes that I do not possess. A good leader will capitalize on those attributes and take her input into consideration allowing him to make better final decision.
As the captain (DOM) I rely heavily on Little Kaninchen’s knowledge and skill as my co-pilot to help navigate us through the night. The co-pilot may navigate but the captain has the final authority.
If I were a brand new captain fresh off of IOE, I would listen carefully to my nineteen year co-pilot…
Don’t make D/s more difficult than it is… It can be quite simple…
D|s-M is Dominance submission for married couples.
The result of practicing D|s-M states the most important needs of every couple.
The wife, it satisfies a deep craving or hunger for intimacy or closeness with her husband.
The husband will acquire his need for the unexplained trust and respect from his wife.
D|s-M is our method that we created that brings D|s, Dominance and submission into a couple’s marriage in a consensual, and healthy manner. The methodology positively builds a marriage and is never used to damage or weaken it, giving you all that edge without you or your marriage getting cut. You’ll be working together as a team on your dynamic and individually working on your part of the D|s role.
It’s the most wonderful time of the year. It’s Halloween season! It’s my absolute favorite holiday of the whole year.
This is a two part episode with an additional bonus at the end.
Part 1:
Guests: SirJ & Star (From husDOM & subMrs)
Top Feared Sexual Technique – What is Fisting?
SirJ and Star will join Mr. Fox and Little Kaninchen in a conversation all things vaginal fisting. If you have ever been curious about or have questions or concerns regarding fisting this is the episode for you.
How to Vaginally Fist Your Partner
Part 2:
Join Mr. Fox and lk as they discuss the relationship between Halloween and Dominance and submission.
What do they have in Common?
Bonus Material:
Mr Fox and Little Kaninchen talk about their personal paranormal experience in New Orleans.
Married Dominance and submission, Marriage’s Sexiest Secret
Our main focus this month is about Nipple’s and Nipple Play!
Nipple Play is the stimulation of the nipple during sexual activity. As part of sexual activity, the practice may be self performed or performed upon by another. Nipples can be worshiped, decorated, clamped, electrified, sucked and pinched.
Work smarter, not harder, and you’re married dominance and submission relationship. The phrase work smarter, not harder. I’m sure we’ve all heard this before in our lifetime, it’s nothing new. What does it really mean? And how can we apply it to our everyday lives. I broken this topic down into three easy steps or guidelines.
Just came across your blog and I think it’ll be a great thing for both myself and my husband to read. We have some issues with DD and I think this blog could help a lot. Thanks! 🙂
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I can’t resist…round butt in square pants…is that a Sponge Bob reference?
Elle,
Forgive me, during and now after our vacation I have gotten little rest, I am quite fatigued. It may have been…
HusDom
Elle,
At least now I know someone ‘really’ read it!
Husdom
Forgiven and forgotten 🙂
It’s extremely sensible.
Thank you for reading and commenting…
husDom
Very well said!
Pretty Primal,
Thank you…
husDom
Just came across your blog and I think it’ll be a great thing for both myself and my husband to read. We have some issues with DD and I think this blog could help a lot. Thanks! 🙂
Kenzie,
Thank you for your comment.
If you have any specific questions that you do not want to discuss on this open forum feel free to email me at mrfox@husdom.com, or my LK lk@submrs.com. You may want to visit my LK at http://www.submrs.com as well.
Mr Fox