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Bratty SubMrs.

Dealing with my Bratty submissive/subMrs. can often times prove to be difficult due to several factors, my submissive is also my wife, we have young children that are still at home and we are in the BDSM closet to almost everyone that we know.

I have learned that when my submissive, Little Kaninchen, begins to act out, she is wanting, needing attention. She acts out in a playful manner but she is acting out non-the-less. She is testing me as a Dom. She is also telling me as a Dom that she needs more attention and that she hungers for correction or punishment.

SUBONDOMSLAPINCHAIRSSPIOPT40,Bratty subMrs, Married Dominance and submission,Dominant TrainingIf I am to be a Dominant and not a poser I will have to serve her needs.

The story below is my inspiration for the blog post. It took place just a couple of weeks ago in our home.


Kaninchen and myself had just gotten out of the shower and were getting ready to leave the house and grab a quick lunch. I passed by her in our great room as I was walking out of our bedroom and she headed back from the laundry room with the rest of her outfit. I suggested to her that she hurry and finish up so we would be back in time to get our son off of the school bus.

Kaninchen playfully mocked me. She knew that we didn’t have much time and probably thought, “What is he going to do about it?” I had a decision to make right then. Do I let it go, after all she was being playful? Or do I punish her for her disrespect? Also, I am trying to figure out what response she is expecting from me. Does she want to be bent over my knee and have her ass assaulted right now? I decided that a “Real Dom” would never let this slide. She has confirmed to me several times that she takes our D/s relationship seriously and she wants more, wants to take it to the next level. I looked at her with a devilish smile and said, “Kaninchen, I am going to have to have to give you a spanking for such disrespect.” As I began saying that to her she lounged toward our bedroom door with a childish giggle.

I ran her down, conveniently I caught her right beside our bed. I drug her over to the bed as she struggled against my efforts. I bent her over the mattress at her waist and pulled her pants down around her ankles. A month earlier I told her to pick out a nice leather strap that I would use to punish her with. I ordered her to remain in that position on our bed as I retrieved the strap. I asked her to tell me why she was being punished. She said quietly, “For being disrespectful”. I told her that I was going to give her 10 swats with the strap. Kaninchen does like a little pain but this was a punishment with absolutely no warm up. I wondered if it would be too much. If she would protest. What I would do if she did? I treasure her and certainly dont want to hurt her.

I tell her to count the swats out loud for me……….shutterstockpdimagedomesticstrap,Bratty subMrs, Married Dominance and submission,Dominant Training

Smack! Her ass barely flinched as the leather begins to leave a nicely defined mark across both of her ass cheeks. “One”, she says.

I can tell that this is a struggle for her. I remind her to breathe…

After the fourth strike I can see her breathing settle into the rhythm with my strokes and she is practically moaning as she continues to count off the swats for me.


After I finished I reminded her why she was punished and told her that she had done a good job. I then quickly rubbed some anti-bruising cream on her skin, smacked her on her ass with my hand and told her she really needed to hurry now. She pulled her pants back up and walked over to our full length dressing mirror to rearrange her clothes once again.

As I was walking out of the room I saw her stick her tongue out at me in the mirror.

I rushed over and confronted her. She of course denied it. We have written rules and one of those rules is that she is to answer all of my questions without hesitation and with complete honesty. I asked her again and reminded her of her rules and that she must obey them. She began to speak and then hesitated. I knew instantly that what I had thought I saw her do, I did in fact see her do.

I grabbed her and drug her over to the bed again, bending her at the waist and ripping her pants down to her ankles again not saying a word. She began a nervous giggle as she struggled. She doesn’t normally struggle or giggle. When her pants came down her ass was already a swollen bright pink color from the strapping just minutes earlier. I began to spank her quickly and hard. She continued to struggle with me and never stopped her giggle. I pinned both of her hands behind her back and faced away from our bed kneeling over top of her. My back was toward her head and I had her hands pinned with my legs so she couldn’t cover up from the spanking.

I spanked her already sensitive ass really good. I was no longer concerned about the time or what I thought she really wanted or didn’t want. I was doing what felt natural for me at the time. When I was sure that her ass could take no more of my assault, I climbed off of her back and positioned myself behind her. I firmly placed one hand on her back just below her neckline and between her shoulder blades and held her to the mattress. Without warning I shoved my cock deep into her. I pushed it all of the way in her with one hard stroke and stopped. Kaninchen quit breathing for a minute. I had caught her by surprise not only by the assault on her ass but now by taking her hard and fast without warning. Her next breath was a low moan as her sex began to stretch around my cock. She was already in sub-space from the spanking. With my cock still buried deep inside of her I grabbed the back of her hair and pulled her face off of the mattress and said sternly, “Kaninchen, don’t you dare cum! You are mine and I am going to do as I please.”

With my hand still grasping her by her hair I forced her head back on the mattress and began to fuck her as hard as I could. It was if she was in a trance, she made no effort to resist me. Her entire body was quivering from sensory overload. Her moaning was completely involuntary. She looked like she would explode at any second. I smacked her ass as hard as I could and reminded her that she had better not cum, that she was mine and I would do as I pleased. It had no effect whatsoever, she was deep in her sub-space. I could feel my self control giving out. I bent down and bit her on the back of her neck as I came deep inside her.

I pulled out of her as quickly as I took her, smacked her on the ass again and told her to finish getting ready, we were running late. I pulled up my pants from around my ankles and walked off…

As I was leaving the room I dared her to try me again. She walked over to me, kissed me on the cheek and thanked me. She said that she was, in fact, wondering what I was going to do and appreciated what I did.


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  1. Wow, great story. Im not one to comment much but wanted to take a moment to say Thanks for sharing. I’ve been in this lifestyle for some time and have an experienced Dom. We follow very similar paths and expectations of each other as you and your partner. It can be challenging to ‘switch gears’ when your one way in the bedroom and another with the kids or vanilla friends. They don’t know what they are missing. It does truly bring you closer and strengthen the bond. As a sub I could see she likely wanted what you dished out. Good girl for not cuming… I find it almost difficult to cum now without being given permission, I’m not complaining. I love my Dom

  2. Sub,

    Thank you for commenting. Since you don’t comment often I am honored that you chose my blog to comment on.

    LK and myself feel much like you regarding the vanilla’s not knowing what they are missing. We only wish that we would have figured it out years ago but we are certainly thankful that we figured it out now.


  3. Mr.Fox,

    I love reading this!

    I have read your bogs four times and am starting my fifth.

    I love the Dominance and the struggle that took place on the assault on your LK’s ass. Being consistent is very important in a D/s dynamic and reading this the situation was handled spot on . The struggle, Domance, usage and filling in the end set the tone, leaving her sore, horny and put in her place.

    As Dominants we all will arrive at the cross roads you write about, asking ourselves “do I stand my ground?” You did not cave or falter, as you where confident in your actions, knowing what your LK and relationship needed in order to have a proper D/s-M dynamic.

    I have read this blog four times and have considered this a funishment of sorts. Now reading this I no longer think that way, as your LK was not aloud an O. Instead her thoughts over lunch are a sore ass and hungry sex. I see a punishment and a Dominant taking what is his and setting the tone, not allowing his rules to go unchecked!

    Great blog!

    Best regards,

  4. In short time I’ve been in this lifestyle, I can see ware my inconsistentcy in the past has caused so much of our ebb and flow problem. This has pointed out several of my mistakes and has given me reason to reflect on them. You have given my kitten and I much to contemplate in our down time. This story has brought a hole new sence of connection to us. Thank you for all of your help.

  5. Excellent post. A few questions: 1. Why was she acting out? 2. Should a true sub challenge your Dominance? 3. Can I expect ‘brattiness’ from time to time?

  6. After some quiet reflection, i believe the proper course is to communicate in lieu of reacting. Not knowing the full context of this scene and not knowing LK’s full personality, on the surface it appears she was soliciting attention from her Dom. She was reactionary in her behavior and not communicating her desire. Did you punish her? Or was this the attention she wanted all along?

  7. Mr. Fox thank you for sharing, it has helped me realize that the dim in me is more interested in my sub following muy orders and thwart the bratty behavior I was willing to tolerate has at times gone out of control. I now realizes that while some”bratty” is enjoyable. I like the challenge, I do need to be firm in the acting that I will not tolerate and not be so concerned Abbott the injury to get pride. Orders as to be followed.
    Thank you again for sharing.

  8. A perfect picture of two of the most necessary ingredients in this lifestyle: Consistency and follow through! Well put.

  9. My sub is close to accepting and surrendering to the lifestyle. This week she showed me an abundance of bratty ness. I cut off our daily emails and late night romantic phone calls. She has responded back and wants to be my sub MRS.
    I need move tips on seducing her mind. She knows I want to spank her and she wants to experience. But I need to get her closer to submission.

    1. Blank Canvass,

      I am a little confused to be honest. She hasn’t committed to the lifestyle yet you are cutting off romantic phone calls and texts?

      The way to create a positive D/s-M dynamic is to begin by seducing her mind. It shouldn’t begin with taking something away from her making her feel as though she has to submit in order to be part of your life.

      You are staring out this journey on the wrong foot…

      Spend some time on the chat and you will begin to see what D/s-M is all about.

      Hope to see you there,

      Best wishes,

      Mr Fox

  10. This has got me thinking… Is Brat trying to tell me more, have I been reading her wrong?

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