Dominant Training |Thoughtful Thursday

Welcome to my new post category, Thoughtful Thursday!

My Little Kaninchen has been writing posts categorized as “Mindful Mondays” for several weeks. The philosophy behind the category is that a D/s relationship requires continuous effort, quite true for any relationship I suspect. Life, children, career, and many other factors play an important role in why many of us become distracted from our D/s relationships.

LK’s “Mindful Mondays” have rapidly become a resourceful tool for submissives to work on and maintain their submissiveness on a regular basis. In fact, the success of her weekly posts, accompanied by her suggestion, has lead me to begin a series of my own called, “Thoughtful Thursdays”.

The Dominant is the leader. As the Dominant you must maintain consistency and growth throughout your entire journey. Consistency is one of the most significant qualities that you will need to maintain for a smooth ride during all phases of flight. The responsibility of consistency and growth lands squarely on the shoulders of the Dominant.

Inconsistency by the Dominant throughout their journey undermines the relationship and will leave the submissive feeling alone and lost. Instead of providing your submissive with a feeling of safety and security, you will leave her feeling unwanted and vulnerable, as though you really dont care about her and her needs. She may even begin to feel as though you are not really into the new lifestyle and begin to withdraw herself. All of these feelings can send your submissive spiraling into the abyss.

Thoughtful Thursdays are going to be a reminder for you as a Dominant, to let your submissive know that you are engaged and in control, that she really is the most important thing in your life and that her submission that she grants to you is cherished and desired by you.

As much as I will try, not all of my posts will be something that everyone can relate to their personal journeys. However, the post alone should remind everyone to do something special for their submissive that week and let them know that you treasure their submission.

Look for my new posts to begin this Thursday.

Best Wishes,

Mr. Fox

 

Dominant Training |Thoughtful Thursday

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