A great deal of excitement for the submissive is the preparation for the event. When selecting a task for your submissive to accomplish in order to please you, try selecting a task that is for her benefit. Trust me gentleman, you are the beneficiary.
I worded my text to LK as if she would be doing me a favor by having her nails done, and in many ways she is.
Little Kaninchen hasn’t had her nails done in a few years. She has been giving subtle hints recently that she may want to have them done again. As a husDom hopefully you are beginning to recognize your submissive’s subtle hints. LK wants her nails done because it will make her feel good about herself, they will make her feel sexy, sexy for me!
She now has a task to accomplish in order to please me. A task that will pay many dividends. The entire time that LK sits in the salon she will be thinking about why she is there. Why is she there? Because her husDom wants and expects it of her. The lady doing her nails is bound to ask her what made her decide to have her nails done again. LK will answer her question but a part of her will feel as though the woman knows that she is not being completely truthful and that she knows the true answer. When finished LK will leave the salon feeling sexy. Feeling as though she has begun preparing for her husDom to ravish her, and she has.
Little Kaninchen… Stop reading right here please. You may finish the rest of this post the morning after my return home.
Now the most important part of this exercise. When I arrive home in a few days I must recognize her completed task immediately and praise her for accomplishing it to my liking. I need to take her hands in mine and examine how sexy her nails look and acknowledging her sound choice in length and color.
I will raise her hand to my mouth and take her index finger all of the way into my mouth, close my lips and tongue around her finger and slowly draw her finger out. I will then instruct her to go inside the airport terminal and remove her panties for our voyage home. I will explain to her that I want to see those sexy fingernails rub up and down on her petals while I am driving. During the drive home I will take her hand to my mouth, again and suck on her fingers, exclaiming how good she tastes from her new nails.
LK frequently has to wear her plug when she picks me up from the airport. The plug would definitely intensify this entire scenario.
This is what I intend on asking of my submissive this week. Many of you will not have the same circumstance available to you. Remember to think of a task that benefits your submissive on your behalf.
Work smarter, not harder, and you’re married dominance and submission relationship. The phrase work smarter, not harder. I’m sure we’ve all heard this before in our lifetime, it’s nothing new. What does it really mean? And how can we apply it to our everyday lives. I broken this topic down into three easy steps or guidelines.
During my journey to become a better man, a better husband, a better Dominant, and a better leader there hasn’t been a time when I haven’t felt like my personal health and fitness wasn’t an integral part of my journey. This to me was just like oxygen to a flame, a necessity.
What happened next is what really turns me on during scenes like this. Lk’s body is subconsciously trying to withdraw from the punishment but somewhere in the depths of her being there is another notion. The notion to push her shoulders back which will effectively drive her breasts directly into the teeth of the leather falls as they continue to thrust relentlessly on her.