International Fetish Day

International Fetish Day was brought into existence January 16, 2009. It was established as a day to recognize and support the BDSM community. International Fetish Day was also intended to encourage members of the lifestyle to be more open regarding their sexuality. Since its inception people from all over the world have come together to celebrate not only our differences but also to celebrate our similarities within the lifestyle.

Since our Dominance and submission culture is so tightly join to BDSM it only seems appropriate that we celebrate the day as well.

Perverts Wear Purple

It has become tradition that on International Fetish Day members of the BDSM community wear purple in an effort to support our culture.

It was by design that members of the BDSM community could participate in this celebration from all over the world and do so while hiding in plain sight. Purple is widely used in many BDSM circles however, wearing purple would not out you and your secret desires to the rest of the vanilla world around us.

There has been some contention and controversy that sounds the slogan, “Perverts Wear Purple”. Many practitioners of the BDSM lifestyle have been separating themselves from the label of ‘pervert’.

Pervert

The word pervert actually means a person whose sexual behavior is regarded as abnormal and unacceptable. The definition of pervert is not abnormal or unacceptable, it is both.

lk, myself and many of our membership have been making great efforts to normalize TTWD, Married Dominance and submission, BDSM, in the eyes of public opinion. I believe that it will take an education process along with a deliberate and consistent message, that will help remove the taboo and stigma that we all currently carry. In the past many practitioners reveled in the mysterious darkness of our lifestyle. Today you can hear lk telling the entire world that she wants to shine a light on us and bring us out of the darkness and into the light.

Wear Purple this Friday January 18, 2019

Join us this year in celebrating our culture and our roots. Participation, by design, allows us to protect our anonymity while publicly displaying our approval and participation in the art. This may also be a fun Dominant Challenge that you can do with your submissives. Give them a simple command to participate. Spice up your expectations of their participation and make it challenging if you wish.

Take a minute and post a comment of what you are going to ask your submissive to do in participation this year.

I am curious as to what the rest of you think about the ongoing debate regarding the ‘Perverts Wear Purple’ slogan.

Do you think that the slogan is alright and that we should simply support?

Or do you believe that we should change the slogan to something else? For example, “Practitioners Wear Purple.”

Please share you thoughts in the comments. If you are in preference of changing the slogan please add some ideas of what you would like the slogan to be if you could have your way.

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HD008 – Rope Bondage – Marshall Bradford

We have the honor of having Marshall on our show today to talk about rope bondage. And to give us some pointers on where to get started in this art. We discussed things such as the different types of rope available, different diameters, and lengths of rope as well. Marshall will tell us what he prefers and why. He will also give us some starting points on putting together our first rope bondage kit, including some reputable places to purchase your rope.

Join me today as I talk with Marshall Bradford about rope bondage.

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HD004 – How to work smarter not harder in your Married Dominance and submission relationship.

Work smarter, not harder, and you’re married dominance and submission relationship. The phrase work smarter, not harder. I’m sure we’ve all heard this before in our lifetime, it’s nothing new. What does it really mean? And how can we apply it to our everyday lives. I broken this topic down into three easy steps or guidelines.

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5 Behaviors that can damage your D/s-M relationship

Powerful relationships don’t just happen by chance. And the couples living them dont take them for granted. They are fully present, all of the time, and they have learned the skills that are required to succeed in a relationship. When you see a married couple that has a healthy meaningful relationship, the odds are if their happiness is authentic, that they will have many other powerful relationships in their lives as well. It is almost as if they have cracked the code on relationship skills.

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HD011 – One Giant Leap

A committed Dominance and submission relationship is a commitment. The journey has its challenges and also its rewards. Take the leap!

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HD014 – 5 Practical Ways to Lead with Masculinity in a Relationship

In today’s episode, I’m going to discuss five practical ways to lead with masculinity in your relationship. We often hear people talk about being the leader in their relationship. Leadership is a core trait of the divine masculine energy, like dominance, if I had to choose a single word to describe masculine energy to someone, it would be leadership. Well, we don’t hear people talking about us frequently is what dominant leadership looks like, and how it actually shows up in our everyday lives. And in our relationships. Today’s discussion is meant to help to devise some sort of actionable guideline that you can use to either get started towards an amazing relationship or marriage. For for those of you that are already on this path, a guideline to help enhance and to hone those skills needed for an amazing relationship or marriage. These five steps regarding leading with masculinity are transferable to all types of leadership and relationships in general. Think of it as building your masculine core. These five steps are going to help you become a better masculine leader and a better masculine man.

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Perverts Wear Purple

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Wear Purple this Friday January 18, 2019

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