submissive Name | Little Kaninchen

submissive Name | Little Kaninchen

submissive Name | Little Kaninchen

submissive name…   Little Kaninchen

I have called my submissive Little Kaninchen almost from the beginning of our journey.  Kaninchen is German and translates to rabbit.  Yep, she is My Little Rabbit.  Everyone in our family has a few nicknames.  This made calling her Little Kaninchen in front of our children or friends and family completely normal.  Nobody even gives it a second thought or suspects anything from me using this endearing term.

An arduous dilemma for many new Dom’s is how to begin their scene.  How to transition from being vanilla one minute to being D/s the next.


How do you transition from being husband and wife to being Dominant and submissive?

Most couples have developed some kind of signal or code to reveal to their partner that they are ready to transition into their perspective roles.  For some it may be a particular piece of clothing or outfit they wear.  For others it may be a song or a genre of music.submissive Name | Little Kaninchen

For LK and myself this transition happens when I refer to her as Little Kaninchen.

Having such a mechanism will help you transition into your roles and will allow you to begin preparing your minds for the transition.  A subtle signal can clearly communicate where your mind is and what your expectations are without speaking them aloud.

For myself, I frequently interchange my wife’s real name and her submissive name, Little Kaninchen.  This allows her to know what my expectations are of her at any given moment.  If I were to ask her a question and reference her as Little Kaninchen she immediately knows that I am asking her as her HusDom.  If I were to ask her the same question but reference her by her real name she would know that I was not asking as her HusDom but rather as her husband or partner.  This has become very natural for us and we can alternate back and forth in front of anyone at anytime without anyone being the wiser.

For all of you HusDom’s a nickname or pet name is a distinctive way for you to define when you are in role.

Mr Fox

This post had been written when LK and I were mostly bedroom only.  Since then we have developed into a 24/7 dynamic and I refer to LK as nothing but Little Kaninchen or LK no matter the venue.  If we were to meet tomorrow I would simply introduce her as LK…, submissive only website

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  1. I am new to your blog and find it fascinating! I am the Dom in my marriage and my wife (baby girl) is now following both you and your LK blogs! They are very classy and respectful…nothing perverse or out of context.

    So…we are new to this is and I was looking for some guidance on how to transition from as you call it Vanilla with a twist to true D/s scenes. Any ideas on a great “first” scene? Books? Something to help us truly move to the next step….

  2. DomIam,

    Thank you for the kind words regarding our blogs.

    I would be honored to help guide you along your new journey!

    If it would suit you better please feel free to contact me at, to discuss your situation in more detail.



    Little Kaninchen advised me that your wife may contact her directly as well at if she would like to speak more privately.

  3. So this begs the question… the D/s relationship is mainly in the bedroom and erotic in nature? Other than your own private codes or names, it’s not a 24/7 type thing?

    And one last question… I went back to your original posting, and it sounded like she asked you for this. However, was there some predisposition on your part to want to be more Dom? It seems like the transition has been pretty smooth for you. You took on your role fairly enthusiastically and without much prodding from LK?

  4. Our D/s relationship began only on the bedroom, yes…

    LK wanted more… That seems to be a common theme with her. Lol

    Taking our D/s relationship out of the bedroom and more 24/7 while remaining in the BDSM closet proved difficult. She has given me complete control over our day to day lives. This is not to say that she doesn’t make decisions daily without my input.

    Despite the name of her blog,, I would say that we are 24/7 incognito. We are at our own, personal, place in our journey. Some may look at us and say that we are not even close to a “real” 24/7 relationship while others may only wish to be where we are at.

    It’s important to nurture this lifestyle into what you and your partner are comfortable with. What makes the two of you happy.

    Without prodding, yes. In the beginning, my conscious mind was constantly trying to convince me that LK didn’t really mean what she was saying. That she was asking for more than she really wanted maybe for effect. LK was perfect in reassuring me along the way, she was perfect. Being a leader is a natural position for me and essentially that is what a submissive is asking for, a leader…

    Mr Fox

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