Directing Your Dynamic

I am sitting across from my lovely LK while she finishes up her Mindful Monday post this evening thinking about how I am going to miss her terribly this upcoming week. recent addition of the Thoughtful Thursday posts have become somewhat popular.  However, there appears to be some issues that are being brought to the forefront.  SUBDOMWITHAPPLESSPIOPT367

Gentleman…  It is beneficial for your submissive to forward quality D/s information to you as she comes across it.  With my difficult schedule I still rely on My Little Kaninchen to forward this type of information to me.  However, if you enjoy reading my Thoughtful Thursday post and my blog maybe you would consider following my blog yourself.  This suggestion is not an effort to increase my website statistics, our two websites have been growing so rapidly recently that our statistics are of no real significance to me any longer.  The suggestion was made to benefit you.  If your submissive currently forwards my posts to you AND you read them, why not sign up for my blog post updates for yourself.  This will eliminate her from reading the same material as you.  If one of my posts should inspire you your effort will be a complete surprise to her. 

So I am asking the husDom’s to follow and your submissives to un-follow…

Do not be concerned about receiving too many emails from me I do not post very frequently.

You will maintain your anonymity when you join.

You are under no obligation to comment on any post.

Please consider my request.


Mr. Fox

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  1. Great idea! I like knowing that I can use any material you write that inspires me without her having already read it. I would assume a big part of growing as a Dom is taking what you like (and leaving what you don’t) from other Doms and making it your own. I am hesitant in doing this if I have the slightest inkling that my sub might have already read the post. This is a great suggestion.

    1. Just Me,

      Very well said…

      All of my posts are written with the intention that you will take from it what you like and disregard what you don’t. Every relationship and every dynamic is truly individual. If you do EXACTLY as I do it will most likely not fit perfectly into your own dynamic and will not produce the best results.

      Put your own personal signature on everything. Use my posts as inspiration…

      As always I appreciate your insight.

      Mr. Fox

  2. Mr. Fox,

    Dominic has signed up for your blog. I like to also read what you have to say but I do like the idea of not always knowing. I will unfollow and let this be the Dom’s place. Thank you for your time and guidance.

    Subrina <3

    1. Subrina,

      I am elated to learn that Dominic has signed up to follow my blog. At the same time I am saddened to lose you as a follower. When I wrote this post I realized that I was in essence asking some of my coveted long time followers to unfollow husDom. I do believe that this action is the correct move in order to enhance your D/s-M relationship.

      If Dominic decides in the future to no longer follow husDom I would be honored if you were to follow again.

      Please stay in touch with my LK so that I can continue to follow your personal journey.

      Best wishes,

      Mr. Fox

  3. My Little Devi came across your sight and forward it to me and I’ve been reading it ever since. When she forward it to me she said it was for me and she will not follow. We are new to our D/s relationship and your posts are very helpful and insightful. I look forward to the next post.

    1. Second Chance,

      Welcome Aboard!

      Your email and your gravitar speak volumes..

      It brings me joy to know that other people are benefiting from my posts and that my posts may help their D/s to grow as well.

      Thank you for commenting,

      Mr. Fox

  4. Sir… You are so inspiring…
    I love you… And I love not knowing every step!
    LK ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  5. Ah, is it still okay if some submissives follow this? My boyfriend and I are kind of new to BDSM (only a few months in… well, at least he is. I’m a bit more researched) and he doesn’t have a wordpress or many internet accounts at all. 😛

    It’s that you’re pretty informative and there are good ideas here…

    1. Little Succubus,


      I wasn’t asking all submissive’s to leave. I was trying to motivate the Dominants that are already reading my posts to follow me themselves and eliminate the middleman (submissive).

      Everyone is welcome… I learn a lot from hearing the submissive’s perspective regarding D/s. If you look back through my posts you will see that many submissive’s comments fill in the gaps that I may have left. And it is their perspective that all of us Dominants need to really pay attention too.

      Please stay and continue to participate here on my blog.

      Best wishes,

      Mr. Fox

  6. A few submissive’s have expressed that they strongly desire that their husDom’s follow my blog and are experiencing frustration as they do not feel as though they are following.

    If your husDom is aware of my blog and chooses not to follow that is fine. Hopefully he is searching and finding the answers that he seeks somewhere else. When I first began my personal journey I couldn’t find many blogs that I felt expressed what I wanted my D/s to resemble.

    Each journey will look different from the next and take a different course. That is what makes relationships so unique and special.

    If you continually suggest something to your Dominant, such as following my blog, he may begin to interpret your suggestion as if he is no fulfilling your desires.

    My posts really are meant to be taken as thought provoking only. No one should do exactly as I do. Their dynamic is most certainly different than my own. By posting I hope to inspire within another Dominant an idea that he can nurture and make his own.

    Best wishes,

    Mr. Fox

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