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  • Which One Weekend 2/12/21

    Posted by mr-k-sir_ on 02/12/2021 at 5:27 pm

    Just a quick reminder of the rules, I will pose a Which One question with at least 2 choices, you can only pick one of the two. There are NO substitutions, to participate you must pick one of the choices. The scenario given is a theoretical one where you would have to use your choice of the options forever and give up ever using the other options. Once you make your choice please give a reason why you made that choice.

    Would you choose to have your subMrs give you oral or would you choose to give her oral?

    Remember you can only choose between these 2 options and your choice would be “forever”.

    Mr. K sir

    ****If you have an idea for a Which One, please PM me and I will try to work your suggestion in.

    OTW-AMB replied 1 year, 7 months ago 4 Members · 4 Replies
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  • Mr.Fox

    02/14/2021 at 3:37 pm

    I may be on an island by myself with this answer but I would choose to give lk oral.

    It has been this way our entire relationship and I could never really put my finger on why this may be the case but after beginning our D|s-M lifestyle I may know what the answer to that question is. I like to be in control and always have. When I give lk oral I am in complete control of her and her pleasure. When lk gives me oral if feels good for a minute or two and then I want to be in control. It usually ends up with me more face fucking her than it is her giving me oral.

    Gentlemen, am I alone on this one?

    • mr-k-sir_

      02/14/2021 at 4:50 pm

      Mr. Fox,

      You are definitely not alone. I have always loved giving my Dea oral, the control it gives me over her is a huge turn on for me. But this one made me think a lot more than the previous Which One questions. Dea has never really enjoyed giving oral, she does but it is not something that she longs to do. That being said, when I do have her give me oral she lets go completely and gets to the point she is dripping wet, its not the act that is turning her on but the control I am exerting on her that causes this, even if I am just laying back and letting her do what she wants, she knows I am in complete control. So for this reason I had to think long and hard about this one.

      I would still choose to give her oral and give up being on the receiving end, being responsible for her pleasure is a greater turn on for me then anything else and I would never give up the site of her body from between her legs as she cums.

      Mr. K sir

  • caspian

    02/14/2021 at 9:21 pm

    Oof, tough question … and an interesting one to consider. As much as I love and get so much pleasure from giving my treasure oral, if I had to choose one over the other forever, I would choose my subMrs giving me oral. It is a huge turn on for her as I can instruct and tell her exactly how I want it, what I want her to do, and gets her quickly into subspace by following my instructions. While she loves receiving oral, the subspace element for her (pliant, deeper consciousness, softening, and a tremendously pleasurable state for her) isn’t there when she receives, only when she gives. But boy … I sure would miss her kitten.


    02/15/2021 at 1:07 pm

    That is a really tough one. Like Mr. Fox said, giving her pleasure is one of my favorite parts of being dominant because that is when she gets to completely surrender and I have control to give her an orgasm. <div>

    That said, for my minx, oral is pleasant and she enjoys it but she has never and will likely never cum orally as it takes a lot for her to be able to climax. Because of that and because of the way the power of her serving me orally, allowing me to take her face, feeds both of our mindsets, I would have to choose oral for me as it would feed us both better than for her. </div><div>

    So glad I don’t have to make this choice though!</div>