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Stronger Together
Fellow Don’s,
My sub and I are married with 4 children ages 12, 10, 8, and 1. We have a very traditional monogamous marriage, but was finding are self drifting into a slump of more dad an mom with less husband and wife. Going through the motions passing like strangers in the hallway of our own home. There would be days she wanted her husband but I was busy, an when I wanted her she was hurt from feeling pushed away by me, so we was never on the same page at the same time anymore. Almost losing our marriage because I was failing as a man and slacking as a leader of my home we fell into chaos drifting further and further apart. She wanted counseling trying to do my job and save our marriage since I wasn’t going to step up like I promised her I would the day she said yes to me. I refused believing we didn’t need it allowing pride to blind me of the problems growing in my home. I had a view on marriage and thought it was her job to please me as my wife and make sure I was happy, but now I know was completely wrong and the whole reason we was failing. I want to say I am a very lucky man to have this woman as my subwife because it’s because of her we found husdom.com. We are now on track to repairing our marriage and building it stronger than we could have ever imagined. It has made the good times mind blowing, and is teaching us how to work the the tough time productively. We are becoming positive role models for our children and I am showing my boys how to treat woman by how they see me treat there mother, and my daughters learn what to expect from a man from how I treat there mother. Hopefully I am setting the standards high and they make better choices in the beginning unlike we did. This forum that Mr.Fox and LK have put together hits exactly what we both desired for our marriage, but didn’t know how to aquire it until now. Our faith held us together during the rough times, and allowed us the find a place that spoke very clearly to our desires an needs. A Monogamous D/S Marriage was the foundation we needed to build a covenant that’s unbreakable. I am learning as a husdom what it truly means to lead, and my subwife is truly becoming the helper I need. We are both very new and spend time devoted everyday to learning all we can discussing what we learned and finding ways to incorporate it into our new lives striving for a 24/7 D/S marriage one day soon. Our goal is to use what we have learn and hopefully help save another marriage once we truly find our barring and learn how to navigate this more efficiently.
Duramax
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3 Replies
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Duramax,
I was in a very similar situationa you were in, my Dea and I had become more like roommates then husband and wife. And like you my Dea found Husdom.com and sent me the link, our journey had already started, but husdom is where I believe it really began.
I wish you the best in your journey and look forward to chatting with you as you progress along the way.
Mr. K sir
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Duramax,
Your backstory is very inspiring. Many including myself will see parts of themselves in your journey already.
I look forward to learning more about you and your dynamic as it grows and develops.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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Mr. Fox and Mr. K sir,
Thank you both
Duramax
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