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Senior Citizen Beginners: How to stay fresh after 39 years
Not long ago, nor in a far away land; a light appeared over house. At least I thought one did, but I was only dreaming. Or Was I mistaken?
Regardless, early this year my Wife asked what would I think if she said she wanted to be spanked. I had no problem, I did, which led to her saying she wanted to be tied up, I did, which led to her telling me about a website she had found.
That led me to this site; I began a basic membership in February, learned what I could, and a new world opened up. We went from being two retired public school teachers with 2 Children (they are grown and gone lol), 2 “kids” (rescue Dachshunds), and a routine of “normalcy” to me being Master & her being Naughty Natasha. Who would have thunk it, lol, Senior Citizen beginner Dom/sub’s (I am 64, she 66)!
We married in 1981, my 2nd year as a High School History Teacher & Football/Track Coach. I had played College Football, she was a student at same school, we met and 3 years later were married. Children came a few years later, and sex was a function more than an enjoyment. I Taught 30 years, she had 20 years, and both of us had rough times toward the end of our careers. I went through personal troubles with my career, upon retirement went into a downward spiral, alcohol & drugs, legal issues, rehab programs; I came out the other side and she was still there.
We have had a good sex life the last few years, but since February we have become more intimate than ever. We are not 24/7, we are not very far along with these new roles, but we are getting better. It was new for first few weeks so it was great, then the C-Virus came, and we were disrupted dealing with Life on Life’s Terms. The last 3 weeks or so we have gotten back into things, I am learning and getting better in my role as Dom, she is improving in her role. Together, we are noticing that the change has not only improved our sex lives but also our entire lives.
Communication, that is the key so far, and each day has its gotten better. WE have much more to learn, which is why I began my Premium Membership recently. With the support and knowledge of the website, we look forward to adding more chapters to this new story.
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So awesome to hear your story so far sir.
I’ve seen you log on multiple times, but haven’t yet had the chance to chat. If you ever see me online don’t be shy!
If you ever want to talk about tying up your best friend let me know 😉 Rope is my Thang.
Cheers mate. Good to get a bit of a picture to go with the name.
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Master Setarip81,
Welcome to husDOM sir. You have already learned the most important lesson, communication is key. This whole lifestyle is built on communication, you keep that going and you’re moving in the right direction. I have enjoyed or chats the few times we got to talk and look forward to chatting with you more in the future.
Mr. K sir
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Master Setarip81,
Welcome aboard Sir,
The intimacy that has been discovered in our relationship has truly been one of the most amazing benefits since discovering the lifestyle. I have become a much better man and have a new awareness of others around me.
Also, the past is the past and it sounds like you have already paid too much for mistakes made. We can’t change what happened 1-second ago, all we can do is work hard toward the next. I know that you are a history teacher to your core, but when the lesson is learned, don’t look back, look towards the future. What can you do right now to move the ball forward? In a positive direction towards what you want your life to look like.
Happy to have you among our fine group of gentlemen.
Mr Fox
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Hey!
I appreciate the inclusive attitudes I have experienced here. I was not comfortable with the changes in technology until I discovered that the benefits of these changes outweigh the negatives. I look forward to trudging this new path at a time in our lives where true intimacy leads to positive changes in our overall life.
LOL, we would never have dreamed we are where we are today. My Naughty Natasha (Nn) has transformed my Wife into that woman I want to live with “til death do us part.” Master Setarip81 (set) has changed as well, but knows change takes action & action takes effort.
Everyone has a story, & the each story is unique – “his story” – {stressed to my students back in the day by telling them that everything has a story which makes History so interesting, & there are few absolutes}.
THanks
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I just joined the site. I’m 60, and it was my wife who brought up the subject, too! In a short time it has turned into an adventure, and brought a freshness into our relationship (married 32 years).
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