My wife, MinxOTW17 and I, started playing with Power Exchange in the bedroom in February. We started taking turns who was in charge, exploring. Recently, however, it has become clear that she is submissive and craves control and that I am growing in confidence and leadership when I am her Dom. From a conversation in October where all the walls of sharing desires and needs, along with other things we had not shared with each other, we started a journey that has led us to where we are now.
After 6 months of playing, increasingly more into other parts of our lives, we have decided to go 24/7 with me as her Sir and her as my minx. We have spent a lot of time exploring, talking, and researching what we want and exploring this world, but are still newbies both in time spent and what we know. Excited to find a monogamous community where we can grow and learn to help each other be the best we can be together.
Looking forward to learning and getting to know others here.
Welcome to Husdom. We are excited that you found us as well. There is a lot to learn and there are many Dom’s on the site with experience in the 24/7 dynamic. I look forward to talking to you in chat sometime. Don’t hesitate to join in on the chat and ask questions. We have all been there and we are here to help each other.
You may just be developing your actual D/s-M outside of the bedroom but your journey began many months ago. I love to read about couples that begin a journey of discovery together and grow in their personal relationship along the way. Bravo!
If you look closely at our logo you will notice that it is 3 M’s…
Was thankful to have read an article today in the HusDom section about being flexible in the dynamic when life happens. We had an amazing day of tasks and funishments that left her very ready for me to be home and we had planned an extended date together with some fun planned. After we had started, we received a call that a close friend of our’s infant had passed away. Thanks to the articles and I had today and confidence in where we are at I was able to immediately shift to comfort and encourage my minx as she prepped to go support and encourage her friend.
Please accept my condolences regarding your friends infant passing. I can’t imagine the pain and sorrow that they must be suffering. And it must be very difficult for the two of you to witness your friends during such hardship. Your support for them, even if it seems as if you aren’t doing anything except just being there for them, will be invaluable.
Welcome to husDOM OTW, and my condolences also in regards to your friends infant passing.
One of the things, I think, of D/s-M is as a couple we are closer and can comfort each other more. Our sub’s feel that they can come to us more freely and when we as Dom’s are hurting we can go to and rely on our sub.
You and your minx along with your friends will be in Wench and my thoughts and prayers