My partner and I have been together for about 8 years and she’s been very eager to explore BDSM but I’ve been reluctant in the past due largely I think to my upbringing. Unfortunately that’s meant she’s had quite a bit of time as a solo sub, but she’s also been incredibly understanding with me. I’m finally in a place where I can really explore all of this with her and am so excited to finally be the dom that she wants and needs, and to enjoy what an amazing sub that she is. I’m looking forward to all the great help and support that I’m sure this place will offer!
For many of us, our upbringings have created some sort of hesitation or block in our minds regarding this type of relationship. Much of this is from how many of our predecessors have portrayed this type of lifestyle. And for some, it wasn’t a portrayal but it was an excuse for poor behavior. I believe that husDOM and subMrs have brought the possibilities into the light.
I look forward to many future discussions with you as your journey continues.