Hello gentlemen, I apologize for taking so long to prepare an introuction. My Little One (my wife) signed me up on this forum after following Mr. Fox’s blog for some time and I’m just now getting around to checking out the forums. Little One has seen LK’s site but I don’t think is a member yet. I’m encouraging her to join but I think she’s a bit shy about it.
My Little One and I have been together for 12 years, married for 9. Our progression into this lifestyle has been a slow evolution over time. Towards the beginning of our relatioship Little One introduced me to her desire to be spanked. Most of our relationship it has been a fun, still somewhat vanilla addition to our bedroom life.
A couple of years ago as our understanding of eachother’s personalities and desires developed and our understanding of ourselves developed we knew that we wanted more in our marriage. We reasearched BDSM, a straight DD lifestyle, D/s, master/slave. Everything to find the right dynamic for us. We realized that a true loving D/s life is a fit. I am a Dom, her Dom. She is a sub, my sub. She requires guidance, leadership, strength, and discipline when neccesary. I require her submission, softness, gentleness, respect, and affection.
This year we are celebrating our 10th anniversary and are planning a vow renewal with part of that being a collar ceremony of sorts. We are not diving into this lifestyle completely until that ceremony occurs. (The anticipation kills me.) For now I am just looking to develop my strength and attentions as a Dom and a gentleman for her as well as learn to teach her and lead her to becoming a good sub. I appreciate any wisdom, thank you.
Welcome to husdom! Thanks for the introduction. As Mr. B said there is a lot of “subport” on LK’s website for new subs! Feel free to ask questions or start your own forum post. There are many doms here happy to help anyway they can.
I am thankful that your Little One has followed my blog and signed you up. I would also like to encourage your Little One to join LK’s website. I realize that she is she but she is welcome to “lurk”. As a member, when she logs in a chat box will appear. There are always submissives on the chat. The chat has become an invaluable tool for the submissives. If your Little One is too shy to participate she will be able to lurk on the chat and learn a lot. It is the absolute best submissive support tool on the internet. If they contact her on the chat she can simply state that she is too shy and would prefer to just lurk…
You will find that I am a big proponent for slow and steady growth. Each couple will need to make the lifestyle their own and make it fit them as a couple. I am confident that if you participate on this website consistently for any period of time that you will experience a lot of personal growth prior to your collaring ceremony and kicking your D/s-M into high gear.