My LS and I are 22 years married. I can honestly say we have always lived an HOH lifestyle often joking that we should have been a 50’s family. What we (I) did not have however was the organization, communication, and domestic discipline associated with a D/s life.
The D/s lifestyle and the wealth of information I have found on this site, and in sites like this, has brought my relationship focus and a sense of renewal. I am happy to share both my successes and failures as HOH / Dom to any who will listen, and hope to learn from all of you.
Welcome! I was just talking to a friend about an acquaintance that had a clear HOH relationship. I’ve always admired this lifestyle for its clear roles and mutual respect although I would never have thought about it as clearly as I do now.
I am coming to understand it even greater in my D/s relationship and how much things become clearer when there is clear leadership. my darling girl is already feeling the weight lift from her shoulders knowing I am taking responsibility for her and for our home (we’ve been in our D/s relationship for…wait for it…6 days! And I have not been home for 22 days!)
Glad you joined and look forward to you sharing your experiences from the HOH perspective.