I have a couple who also practice a form of husdom/sub. We do not share or swap and all of us are monogamous. How ever we do talk about our dynamics often. The husband and I are looking to put together a scavenger hunt for the ladies with some sexual aspects like “go to a sex. Store and purchase a butt plug. Go into the nearest bathroom and insert them. Send picture to respect partner.” Type things. They can have the same experience but not “together” if you know what I mean. So I am looking for other ideas. Not all tasks will be sexual in nature. What do you think?
We are having a retreat weekend this weekend with another D/s couple. Once again, we are also monogamous and no play will be happening between couples with no sex in public areas of the place we are staying. Here are a few things we are planning: – Having individual rules for our submissive’s – Having our submissive’s in outfits of their dominants choosing – Doing a bondage photo shoot, some of the photos will be with both submissives – Doing a demo (in our case, impact play, non sexual)
For your scavenger hunt, could do fun photo poses they need to take of each other. Maybe give them a challenge of something they don’t enjoy doing but will lead to growth(for instance, my submissive has gained the confidence as a result of our dynamic to barter in some cases at pawn, thrift, or yard sales).