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Introduction
We are beginning our journey down this path at my (Mon Petite Chou) MPC’s suggestion. She seems to have jumped in feet first, but I am still finding my path. We have developed nicknames, safe words, submissive “downtime” position. We have begun to discuss S/d contracts and I could really use some help finding a template or a link to more information.
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2 Replies
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Bsbooga,
Welcome aboard!
It sounds as though you and your MPC are off to a wonderful beginning. husDOM is a wonderful community to help you get started on a successful sustainable journey.
We prohibit any outside links within the community. I would suggest participating in the chat and asking other members what and how they created their own contracts.
I look forward to learning more about you.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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Good morning Bsbooga and welcome!
You have found a great community for which to learn and grow as you discover your dynamic. There is some good reading material in the blogs around how/what to discuss when setting boundaries. I like that you have safe words and are doing downtime – this is a great place to have some of those discussions – i.e. – what’s off limits, what areas to you want to explore more, how have you been doing in scenes or play – too fast or rushing, etc. and vice versa. Remember that this is a safe time for you both to give honest feedback – to learn, communicate, and really listen to one another so you can build that trust of your submissive and within the core of your dynamic.
Welcome again and i look forward to chatting with you in the future.
Mr. G8tr
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