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  • Posted by jager on at

    Hello Everyone, My name is Jager and I have begun my D/s relationship with my wife littlesub about a month ago. I have to say that she has been into this kind of thing for sometime now and she recently asked me if i would be open to entering a D/s relationship with her. After doing a bit of reading(mostly the things she gave to me. books and articles etc.), I agreed and here we are. While I have been struggling to immerse myself in this new lifestyle we have been doing quite well. We seem to be having trouble determining where to draw the line with our D/s relationship, since we literally spend 22 hours a day together during our work as property managers. I look forward to speaking with you all soon.

    Thank you,
    Jager

    jager replied 9 years, 9 months ago 3 Members · 3 Replies
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  • my-darlings-sir

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    Hello Jager,

    Welcome to HusDOm.

    I enjoyed reading your intro. Thank you for sharing.

    We seem to be having trouble determining where to draw the line with our D/s relationship, since we literally spend 22 hours a day together during our work as property managers.

    My Darling and I recently began working together, running our business as well. For us the D/s does not stop…ever. It is something we work at 24/7. Right now we are again working on our protocol, rules and rituals. Having them figured out will help. We are learning that for us it is about the intensity of the D/s rather than whether it is on or off. Obviously when we are playing it is very intense with me in complete control of every aspect. Other times it is a more relaxed atmosphere but there is still an underlying control that is happening. That is what a 24/7 D/s relationship is about. You are in charge, she is your partner and support. Work together, play together and always communicate and you will do great.

    Good day,

    My Darlings Sir

  • Mr.Fox

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    Jager,

    Welcome aboard!

    When I read that you and your shbmissive were working together I immediately thought of My Darling’s Sir…

    MDS would be able to give a better insight on this particular dynamic than myself. My only suggestion would be to communicate with one another and be sure to discuss expectations. Often misunderstandings arise from the two parties having different expectations.

    Best wishes,

    Mr Fox

  • jager

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    Thanks guys. Glad to be here.

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