- February 10, 2019 at 2:49 am #72349Dom12ParticipantBasic | Dominant
This is my first time in the community, as well as the lifestyle. I didn’t even know this kinda thing existed before I got married.
The wife and I have been together for 3 years, and married about a year and a half. We have 2 little boys so finding time for this stuff is a little challenging.
We’ve dabbled in the conversation before and even tried it out, but I had absolutely no clue what I was doing, and essentially ruined it for her. Well a week ago, she asked if she could have a dom, and I basically said f*** that. Since she asked, I have now taken the initiative to learn everything I can to satisfy her in this way. Not too sure if it’s gonna be a lifestyle, or just in the bedroom type thing, but only time will tell.
Being so new to this, I would definitely enjoy and appreciate any and all info and tips you could give me so that I can be the best dom for my wife. I’m certainly reading and learning a lot on here and it’s actually making me very excited to be able to do this for her. Thank you in advance and I’m excited to start this new journey! 🙂
- February 10, 2019 at 6:43 am #72350Sir HermosaParticipantPremium Content | Through the Eyes of a husDOM™
All of us here have great ideas about what a D/a relationship looks like, and with many different experience levels you will get a broad range of advice, tips, and tricks that have worked for us.
Just remember that every single dynamic is different.
I can only imagine how hard that conversation must have been with your wife, and I applaud you for doing everything you can to give her what she needs.
Read the forums, check out Mr Fox’s blogs, and join in the chats. But most of all find a way to open a line of communication with your wife. The only way to satisfy her needs is to KNOW what those needs are! She’s your best resource!
Good luck, and if you see me online feel free to hit me in chat!
- February 10, 2019 at 2:18 pm #72360SirBeeParticipantPremium Content | Through the Eyes of a husDOM™
Welcome Dom12. I am excited to see a fellow member from the Midwest. It sounds like you have come to the right place. There is a wealth of information here. The chat room can be a valuable resource. Feel free to jump in on conversations or ask questions. Everyone here is more than welcoming and always willing to offer their opinions. Best wishes on getting your dynamic started sir.
- February 10, 2019 at 5:12 pm #72361Buck/AMBParticipantPremium Content | Through the Eyes of a husDOM™
welcome to husDom Dom12
Like SirBee has said there is a wealth of information to be found here. Check in on the “where to begin” at the top of the page and read up on anything you think is interesting. We have also, some video chats from time to time. Some are for premium members and some are open to anyone. Check in on the calendar for the times we have them.
If your submissive isn’t already on LK’s site, subMrs.com, I would encourage you to have her join in with them. There are many subs on her site and they have a great time.
Again welcome to husDom and looking forward to seeing you on the chats
- February 10, 2019 at 10:34 pm #72372Mr. BModeratorPremium Content | Through the Eyes of a husDOM™
As others have already informed you…you have found a site that truly cares about each other and their development! You are probably already aware of that!
You are on a journey…and it is your journey! Make it yours and definitely have fun with it!
I look forward to chatting with you on the chats…please do not hesitate to ask questions while you are out there….all the Doms are willing to help in any way that they can!!
- February 13, 2019 at 1:01 am #72387Sir OTW | AMBParticipantPremium Content | Through the Eyes of a husDOM™
Welcome Dom12, glad to hear you are wanting to step up and feed your wife and soon to be sub’s needs. I hope this community helps you become the person you want to be and grow into the Dom she needs.
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