Well, similar to many starts of this lifestyle my sub. (My muse) introduced me to a idea about 2 months ago that has seemingly overtaken my thoughts and everyday life. We have been married for 5 years and it is the second marriage for both of us. We have 1 child together and 3 previously into our very well blended family. In my life I have mostly always been in control of everything except for sex…..this has always perplexed me!! I have always wanted control….craved control, but have never had it. My sub is a reader. After reading the fifty shades series she realized this trait in Me and craved a D/s-M lifestyle. I can’t imagine a different marriage, a different life. I believe that she saved us, saved our marriage. I was so happy to find this site…so many thanks to Mr. fox and his LK. It has helped us in so many ways. I am always reading. Thnx guys. Mr.Bobcat
Welcome! Congratulations on your journey this far. This is a great place to learn and share. Check out the forums and always feel free to participate! Mr. Fox’s blogs are always great reads with well thought out ideas for doms at all levels in their relationship.
Thank you MG! My muse and I are both in our 40’s but truly feel so young again with this me direction in our lives. We truly have had only one formal scene since beginning and I have been reading and studying ideas that we can use in our very new D/s relationship.
Thank you for sharing about yourself and your journey..so far!
I think that a lot(if not most) of the Doms here felt the same way about control in the bedroom prior to beginning our journeys. I know that I was not in control at all but like you stated..that has all changed with our decision to begin the D/S-m lifestyle. It was and is the best decision we have made…other than our original I Do’s!
I look forward to more chat and discussions! I have read so much and truly feel that we(my muse and I) have a amazing secret that our vanilla friends will never understand. I love that I have a platform to use and learn from! Thanks again! Mr.Bobcat
Echoing my friends sentiments, Welcome! This community has been such a foundation as I enter into my D/s-M relationship. Everyone has shared great advice and cautionary tales, I can’t even imagine entering this dynamic with their support.
As said before, the forums hold a lot of information but certainly don’t hesitate to open new threads. No stupid questions here.