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  • Blaik

  • blaik

    at 4:11 pm

    Basic | Dominant

    Hello all. Another new Dominant here. I’ve shared with Mr. Fox the long version of the journey of our story, but I’ll pare it down here for brevity. Our journey actually began not long after we started dating, but we had an 11 yr delay in actually starting it. The last part of November 2013 my wife courageously put herself out there and asked for this kind of relationship, whether with me or not. I admit I am a jealous and selfish man, and have no desire to share her with anyone else, so thus my self-discovery began.

    I’m not a stranger to kink, but the realm of BDSM I admit I thoroughly misunderstood until my wife(still haven’t decided on a formal name for her) pointed me in Mr. Fox’s direction. It was in reading his thoughts my mind was opened and my perspective changed. I’ve come to realize I have within an Dominant I’ve spent most of my life trying to repress. Now I’m constantly seeking to grow and allow that Dominant to flourish. I still struggle with some issues, but thankfully I’ve learned the value of consistent nourishing of my sub to keep her patient and understanding, so as not to leave her with a feeling that this isn’t going to work(thanks again for that tidbit Mr. Fox).

    We still have not had our first scene, mostly due to timing and Mother Nature not helping us out(kids getting sick or stuck home due to weather on days I’ve taken off specifically for playdates), but we’re looking forward to even a very brief one soon. We’ve explored with toys and tools and we’ve found some things we like a lot and some not so much.

    I’m very much looking forward to the interaction on this board specifically. I’m a member on FetLife and CollarMe message boards(same username, feel free to add/message me), but most of what is there is focused on the scene in general, and not as much about the 24/7 lifestyle. I think this aspect is very much so unique and I know it has absolutely without a second thought or doubt saved our marriage and turned us from coparenting roommates back into the loving couple that is on fire with passion for each other. And what we’ve gained as a couple has translated to the family, with fighting and arguing on the decline, and laughter and love on the rise.

  • mr-b

    at 5:28 pm

    Premium Content | Through the Eyes of a husDOM™

    Welcome Blaik!
    Thanks for sharing your story with us. I couldn’t agree more that this is a unique site that will help us all! Mr. Fox has done a great job! Good luck on your journey! Look forward to future interactions!
    Take Care!
    Mr. B

  • Mr.Fox

    at 6:31 pm

    Premium Content | Through the Eyes of a husDOM™


    Welcome Aboard!

    I do not believe that anyone else knows this but Blaik was the driving force behind getting the forum going right now. I had created it a few months ago and thought that no one could find it until I was ready to release it… Well Blaik did…

    Thank you for all of your kind words… I feel like the fortunate one that has gained and learned so much from communicating with everyone here…

    Kindest regards,

    Mr Fox

  • buck-amb

    at 8:07 pm

    Premium Content | Through the Eyes of a husDOM™


    Welcome to one of the most informative sites around for those of us that are husDom’s. Mr. Fox has done a wonderful job here, and with the people that are getting on board, it’s only going to get better.

    Looking forward to sharing more with you.


  • my-darlings-sir

    at 12:31 pm

    Basic | Dominant

    Hello Blaik,

    Welcome and good luck on this wonderful journey. This is without a doubt the best site/forum I have found online. Mr. Fox continues to be a great example of a HusDOM and has helped me a number of times with advice I could not find anywhere else. In my opinion there is a large difference between the D/s relationships discussed on most online sites and the D/s-M relationships on HusDOM. I have no desire to be in anything other than a monogamous love affair with My Darling. This is the site for me. It is about being with the one you love and having the kind of relationship that people only dream about. Open, honest, trusting, and passionate. I believe we can all learn together to help make our lives with our lovely subs the best they can be.

    Enjoy and stay Dominant…


  • jason1611

    at 7:46 pm

    Basic | Dominant

    Welcome Blaik,
    Glad to have another new Dom aboard. I echo what was said earlier, this is a site for gentlemen who are in very loving relationships with their significant others. Don’t get me wrong, it’s very interesting and informative with plenty of kink, but it’s more like playboy than hustler. And that’s why it’s such a great site for new Doms in loving relationships that also respect their ladies and are greatfull for their submission.
    Have fun, Always,

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