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  • What have I gotten myself into?

    Posted by rj2day on at

    My wife of 24 years calls me Sir, I call her baby and together we have been together since high school and have been friends since Jr high. We married young and had kids (2 boys) young. This has been a long time coming for me and my baby, she is very submissive and has taken to me dominating her very quickly. I sometimes wonder if I do something wrong will it wreck what we have accomplished. As I’m typing this she is at home preparing herself for my arrival from work, that is how quickly she has become my submissive. We started this as a 2 week trial (we are kid less for 2 weeks) and after the first week she asked how we can continue this when the kids come home. My hope is that through this community I will be more confident about what I am doing and keep her wanting more.

    rj2day replied 6 years, 4 months ago 6 Members · 7 Replies
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  • Unknown Member

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    Rj2day,
    Welcome to HusDOM sir. From what I have read I believe you are already a good dominant all you have to do now is expand your skill set. This community as a whole is a great place to do just that. There is a sister site if you were unaware at submrs.com for our subs to learn and grow in a safe environment. Please do not hesitate to look around as ask many questions.

    Highest Regards
    Grey Wolf

  • husdom

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    Rj2day,

    Welcome aboard sir!

    Your introduction truly resonates with me as lk and I have known one another since we were in the 7th grade and began dating when we were 15…

    I am excited for you both when I read this introduction. Remembering all of the feelings that I had when we first began our journey as well. WE had no idea what was in store for us along the way. There was virtually no guidance online or in the book stores to assist us or to give us guidance. Today there is a wonderful community with gentleman and ladies, much like the two of you, to share experiences with.

    I look forward to getting to know you better in the future.

    Best wishes

    Mr Fox

  • master-chief

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    Rj2day,
    Welcome aboard sir! Lots of ways to learn more here everyday. Enjoy your journey. Don’t be afraid to ask more questions. There are loads of different experiences to explore and equally as many sirs to learn these from or with.
    Welcome!

    Master Chief

  • rj2day

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    Sirs,

    Thank you for the kind words and I too look forward to getting to know each of you.

    Best Regards,
    Rj2day

  • bigone1960-amb

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    Rj2day,

    Congratulations on discovering this side of your marriage dynamic. All of us have a starting point in how we have expanded our relationships to include D/s. I will tell you from first hand experience is that if you read what is in the blogs, the forums and then get into dialogue with other Doms you will learn a lot as will those who talk with you. This is all about first learning to be the leader in your relationship and then learning the tools both mental and physical ones. I cannot promise that this is a road without bumps but I can promise that if both of you are dedicated to each other and this dynamic you will have a much stronger marriage and bond. I would like to hear how things are going for you through your journey and will be here like the other Ambassadors to support you.

    Best Regards,

    Darren (aka BigOne)

  • Unknown Member

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    Welcome Rj2Day
    You have found an amazing community of Dominants for which to grow and share experiences.

    I too resonated with your introduction as my Para and I have been together since we were 14 and married shortly out of HS. We started our D/s journey in high school but it really took off once we found the D/s-M community. We found a community of like minded couples who are some of our dearest friends and have learned something new each and every day. I hope you are able to reap the same benefits as my dynamic and countless others!
    I look forward to catching up with you on the forums and wish you and your submissive all the best
    Mr. G8tr

  • rj2day

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    Thank you Mr. G8tr

    I look forward to Catching up with you too. I wish you and your Para all the best too.

    Rj2day

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