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Very NEW to this
We are very new to this. My wife suggested watching 50 Shades a few times and for a while we didn’t get around to doing it but eventually we did and it led to us exploring this scene. We started with a night away, I bought a Flogger and a Crop with a Feather at one end and some wrist restraints and we explored spanking each other and we both definately enjoyed some gentle play spanking before and during sex.
I really love the idea of planning and controlling our sex sessions, perhaps getting her to do things which she doesn’t always do, may be over time things need a refresh? It might be something simple like wearing a pair of stockings with really nice sexy shoes, what with kids, etc, we don’t make enough time for these things.
So I’m here now to get some ideas and tips on how to develop both of us. Cat doesn’t yet know that I have subscribed to this site and I guess that is one of my issues – sometimes I am wary about how she might react but reading some of these discussions I guess openess is paramount?
We are both willing to swap roles, if anything Cat may well make a better Dom than me at the moment but that could change. The problem I have with letter Cat be the Dom is that she won’t do what I want so for me that’s it I have to take control for both of us.
I’m really looking forward to learning from this site.
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Dan,
Welcome aboard!
You are correct in stating that openness is paramount in this dynamic. When both you and yours are reading off of he same page it is amazing what you can accomplish.
I am looking forward to learning more about you as you embark on your new journey.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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