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Very new
I have been married to a beautiful woman since 2003, and we have had our ups and downs. Recently, we decided to give swinging a try, and it also opened up the door for us to be more open with our communication. She said she would love for me to be more dominant, and I love the idea.
I am the father of two young men (10 and 13), a martial arts instructor, firearms instructor, US Marine, and currently pursuing my degree in Psychology.
As of now, my attempts at being a Dom are laughable and sporadic, I am hoping that you gentlemen will have some advice for me to not just dominate in the bed, but in life as well. I read about wives that love their husbands and basically serve them. This is what I want. Because the Lord knows that I do love my wife, and Jesus even set the example of servant leadership. She is my princess, and I love to do things for her as well.
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Welcome to HusDOM. You will find the basic foundations here: trust, respect, communication, etc. It’s what makes a D/s relationship sustainable long term.
Not a lot of swingers here to be frank. Once the D/s kicked in for many, the thought of sharing goes away. However, to each, their own. Not my way as I feel this risks far outweigh the benefits.
The old saying my kink might not be your kink, but that’s okay. Whatever works for you.
Again, welcome.
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Yeah, we really haven’t done more than go and watch others, vouyers basically.
We might not even go back, but I think we are really into this D/s lifestyle.
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The efforts are worthwhile I have found.
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I have been very excited, for the last week, since we’ve started this
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Rpage1977,
Welcome aboard!
Husdom is a great place to learn about the basic flundementals of a D/s-M dynamic.
Best wishes
Mr Fox
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Mr. Fox,
Thank you. I am “encouraging” my Princess to sign up for your wife’s blog. If it is half as informative as yours, she (and I) will benefit greatly from it.
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