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understanding?
Been with my wife for 22 years. We have dabbled in BDAM for 11 years. She is a true sub and loves pain. A year and 1:2 ago the beam got more intense and then something went wrong. We went fro feeling so close to just two soldiers bunking together but still having a huge amount of sex. My wife is a poor communicated and I just went into doing it for her not admitting that I was a lifestyler. Things have been tuff the last 6onths, I never thought we would have any problems it had always worked so well. Anyway this weekend was almost the end I felt like I didn’t want to fight for it to work. Then I realized that I need to move from a bedroom Dom to a 24/7 Dom. I spoke with my wife/sub she cried. And did not disagree it was like a cry of f relief. So today was the first day of her being 100% sub. It was crazy bout her being held accountable brought back that person who lived for me. We had great vanilla sex which is rare and I could feel the bond like it used to be. As I lie here getting ready to sleep I think of the journey and work it will take got me to truly give her what she needs to have a purpose. The thoughts are daunting I have several business that dictators I get to be a dominant. Any thoughts on how to keep it going. All thoughts welcome
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ChefDom,
Welcome aboard!
You have already had quite the journey…
I look forward to learning more about you and your submissive.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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