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Type-A Inversion
Hey all,
My wife, subHealer, and I have been married 7.5 years, and we’ve used restraints on and off before, but nothing too complicated. We have two kids, a 4yo boy and a 1.5yo girl. In the past we’ve taken long breaks after birth for various reasons. She recently found this site and presented it to me, saying, “I’m not sure how it’ll work for us, but I want to submit to you.” I’m a stay-at-home dad and not a type-A personality at all, and she’s a type-A physician and is very much in charge at work. She tends to naturally take over at home too, but we both think working on deliberately changing that dynamic would help us feel closer and be happier. So, we’ve been experimenting a little over about the last week, and browsing these sites for ideas on how to make this work for us. We are deeply religious, so some things, like thirds, are completely off the table, but most other things are fine for us.
I think the biggest difficulty for me is that I’ve never really had any terribly complex fantasies, much less given myself leave to really indulge any sexual fantasies I might’ve had, so coming up with ideas for scenes (especially role-playing type stuff), while it’s something she is very interested in, is something that I don’t have the first clue how to come up with.
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CaptainK,
Welcome aboard!
You have already covered a few of the things that I would have said to you in this introduction.
It is vital to realize that D/s-M is a lifestyle, a dynamic in one’s relationship and certainly not a race. Be sure to navigate with reason and precision and at your own pace.
Next, make it your own… Which again by your introduction you already have no difficulty in identifying and knowing what fits your personal values and what doesnt.
On the surface and especially on the chat you may not realize it but there are many others here much like yourself. If you have any questions or concerns you may also be able to contact me directly at, mrfox@husdom.com
Best wishes along your new found journey,
Mr Fox
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