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To begin again…
20+ years ago, Honey Badger (HB alias for the sake of this writing) and I fell in love and cohabitated. At that point, I’d say that she was dominant (but not in the D/s sense) because of my naivete and inexperience with relationships. Broadly, parting ways and living our lives as we thought it best. 6 months ago, karma smiled and brought us back together. The tables have turned and it’s not a question that I have matured and grown. The D/s relationship is new for her and us as a couple.
HB’s personality being sometimes severe type A adds some interesting dynamics to her desire to be submissive. Quite the challenge that I happily accept!! She is very intelligent and it’s a true pleasure to watch as she explores her inner self and the juxtaposition the D/s puts her in professionally and personally.
While new to the “in practice” side of the D/s, I’ve read and learned quite a lot from this site (and others) over the years. Typically, my approach to anything is to research and analyze before putting things into practice. Over the past few months, I’ve grown quite fond of the psychological aspects of being a Dom (but not in a control freak or domineering manner). It’s simply not in my arsenal to be a dick to the woman who holds my heart.
I look forward to learning more from all of you and perhaps offer what I can.
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