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The new start
Hi everyone, I thought I knew how to be a dom, but after speaking with my wife/submissive. I think I may have missed the mark. In the bedroom, I feel very confident. Outside is were my biggest struggles are. She is looking for rules, but they have to be cautions because of our kids. Looking forward to some great advise and progressing into what me and my sub are looking for
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RedFordMustang,
Welcome aboard,
You have discovered the right place to assist you in your journey as you begin to figure out the relationship portion of your journey. The key here will be participation in the forums and the chat. That is where you will be able to see real world examples of other D/s-M couple. Then you can take what you like and adapt it to your personal dynamic. And of course leave what you don’t like.
Another great help to you during this discovery process is to have your submissive register at http://www.submrs.com. This will give her the same support and camaraderie that you receive here.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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Redfordmustang
This is a great resource for your relationship. It takes time for the Dom side to make its way into your professional or vanilla life, especially with kids at home. Yoza and I have 4 kids at home and it has been difficult to allow for the bleedthrough of the D/s life into the vanilla life. It has happened but not fast but the subtlety has not given our older kids any idea that things were changing. The only thing that we got was a comment from our oldest daughter on how little we fight as a couple which was a HUGE compliment to me and all the hard work Yoza put in.
submrs.com is a MUST. There are some great women on that side and a lot of help and support that as the Dom we may not be capable of providing. Have you created a contract yet and set some ground rules? If not, there are many ways to go about it but my Yoza thirsted for tangible rules so that she knew exactly where she stood and made her life soooooooo much easier. If that is what she wants, take the time, make a game plan, and put forth the effort. It will pay off!
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