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The Beginning of a Journey- Intro for Yng Dom
Hello fellow Doms,
What a pleasure it was to find a community like this. Just joined and have thoroughly enjoyed meeting some great folks on the chat already.Wife and I have been together 5 years, dated 4, married for 1. Im 25, shes 24. We both work a lot and very hard. In our work places we both hold leadership roles and balance a lot of responsibilities. Our sex life has always been quite vanilla. I’ve been into exploring kink and such for a long time but her not so much. Since getting married our dynamic has changed quite a bit as before I related more to a sub which was tough cause shes most definitely sub. In order to please her I’ve had to take on a more Dom role. As our relationship progressed towards marriage I’ve taken on the leadership in the house hold as many men do. Most of all have found her excelling in leadership in the work place but when she gets home, she wants me to be completely in charge. Calling the shots for our home and household.
This is where I’ve really started to enjoy the idea of the Dom side carrying outside the bedroom and into our relationship. Really we already portray a lot of the characteristics of a D/s relationship we just dont carry the label or some of the structure yet.
Im here trying to learn as much as possible as I have a great feeling building some structure and better communication will excel our relationship to the next level in all ways. Look forward to meeting yall.
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6 Replies
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Welcome DynamicDomW,
I am so very glad that you have found us here on husDom and am very happy that you are finding this site helpful in building your dynamic. We Doms are here to learn from each other and to extend a friendship that cannot be found in your day to day life in our vanilla society. I have been in D/s for over 30 years and this is the first online community that I have found that I can consider a home full of friends, open exchange of thoughts and ideas, and truly addresses the D/ds-M dynamic in terms of monogamous relationship between 1 Dom and 1 sub totally committed to each other.
Please feel free to reach out to me or any of the other Ambassadors here on husDom if you have any questions or need help navigating. Enjoy reading and chatting with others. Also I encourage you to have you subMrs join her sisters on the subMrs site if she has not already.
Again Welcome to our Community,
BigOne1960 (aka Darren)
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BigOne,
Thank you for the gracious welcome. Am most definitely looking forward to learning much more. Extremely great to hear such positivity about this group from someone who has been in the lifestyle for a while. Am headed home tomorrow and will be sharing my discovery of this community and the subMrs with my wife. We’ve got a lot of room for growth and cant wait to see where the journey takes us. Slow and steady. Thanks again!
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Welcome. This site has been extremely helpful in the short time I’ve been here. My wife also has found the subMRS site to be a great resource for her.
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How did sharing with your wife go when you got home?
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Dynamic Dom W,
Welcome aboard!
You have such a good perspective of what you are and where you have already been. You have stumbled across a great community to help encourage you and to help keep you accountable for the changes that you are looking to make in your life. I look forward to meeting you in chat.
Best wishes
Mr Fox
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Hello learning to dom to fulfill a role my wife and mother of my children needs me to, she craves a very strict structure down to me telling her out fits i desire and accessories. This is all very new to me as my father physically and mentally abused my mom so I’m trying to go about this the right way. Is there anyone who can help with communicating in the correct manner and how i should go about setting and enforcing the rules. We have for a couple weeks now been having very open communication and I’ve been taking more a role of being dom in our sex life which seems to be working so far. I just want to progress so we’re on the same level and she understands my commitment to her and our relationship
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