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The beautiful beginning of our D/s Pilgrimage
My wife/sub and I are recently married (1.5 yrs) but have known each other for over 10 yrs. She and I have been having an exciting, fun, beautiful, loving, and sexy (vanilla) relationship (newly weds, you know). However just recently we embarked together on a journey into kink that surprised us both (to our great satisfaction).
Over the last few months we have:
a) created a sex dungeon in our basement (when the teenager moved out)
b) read about a dozen books on BDSM, M/s, D/s, and the like
c) been playing regularly as Top/Bottom
d) attended our first “sex” play party (and had sex in public – wow)
e) joined a local BDSM community
f) and now starting to create a full D/s contract for a 24/7 lifestyle.… a whirlwind needless to say …
It is like we were both wired for this and just needed the right trusting, loving partner to make it OK. We have already made more progress in 3 months in our relationship (i.e. communication and openness) then we have in the last 2 years. We are humming with excitement and energy.
The only issue is – I am not sure I have ever really opened myself up to my “Top-ness” like this before, and it is a bit over-whelming. I’m a “gentleman” and “pleaser “at heart and looking to find the right way to channel that into a supporting Dominant role. So I am really excited to find like-minded, experienced Dom’s to learn from in order to be the best Servant-Master I can be for my gorgeous, sexy Wife/sub.
Looking forward to meeting you all.
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2 Replies
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Welcome to HusDOM SirHamlet,
I believe you have come to the right place. The community is full of like minded Dom’s that are all more than willing to help. Please feel free to ask us any questions you may have. I look forward to learning more about you in the chat.
Sir,
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Sir Hamlet,
Welcome to the Den!
You will find a plethora of information to develop your own individual D/s-M dynamic here.
I’m a “gentleman” and “pleaser “at heart
This is key to developing your individual Dom-self. As a Dom, we take on the not only the privileges of being a Dom; but also the responsibility for our submissive development and growth. Your statement shows that you have the basis to strike the needed balance.
Have a look around and welcome!
The Hunter
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