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Starting over.
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o.. we went to Sexpo Yesterday. Definitely an eye opener, for her, and even for me. But she handled it pretty well. She only got weirded out once, while looking through the fetish area stalls. Some of the stuff in there was way outside of her comfort zone. So we stepped outside (the crowds were getting to me anyway) and had a break before continuing. And then she was fine. Even things like the puppy play fetishers, while ‘odd’ were not too difficult to see. The guy painting pictures with his wang was a bit strange. As was the TV proudly flashing his c*ck cage for anyone near him.
Attended a couple of the seminars, “beginners guide to sex toys” and “spanking 101”. The sex toy one was very well done, with items being passed around the audience and knowledgeable presenters. M’Lady got a kick out of the toys being so brazenly just handed around! 😀
The spanking one was… disappointing. Inept lady presenting it, who kept referring to her notes and rapidly lost the audience. Literally, as they all started leaving. When she and her (male) partner started a (mostly clothed) demo, it got even weirder and she lost pretty much everyone else, including us.
But she enjoyed browsing the stalls, and we made some new purchases together. Main one being a We-Vibe 4 Plus (which, btw, has an remote control app for your phone!). It was a choice between that or the Lelo Wave, she chose the We-Vibe. Picked up some nipple clamps, after she spoke to the lady selling (and wearing) them, as she thought they would hurt. The lady was great. Took her through the various kinds and how they worked. Put her mind at ease.
And we both got some new…outfits. Unfortunately the only corsets she liked and tried on were acrylic ‘boned’ not steel. But she now knows she prefers underbust or loveheart style, so we can hunt down better ones online.
The other thing she took away from sexpo was that it doesn’t actually matter how you look, or how big you are, as long as you’re comfortable about who you are. Which surprised her, and boosted her self confidence.
What we didn’t take away from sexpo was any energy. All day on our feet and the flu virus still kicking my a$$ meant we had nothing left in the tank for playtime when we got home.
However, we gave the Wi-Vibe a very successful test this morning 😉
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Sounds like a good learning experience. Please keep me posted on the We-Vibe, I’m interested in that one.
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We have used it just the once so far, that Sunday morning. It took a short while to get it just in the right spot, but once it was there, we had ignition! 😀
Definitely “does it” for M’Lady. Used it as part of a fairly vanilla scene, for about half hour or so, cycling through the different settings along with.. manual stimulation. Some worked more than others. But the ones that did, sent her into orbit. Bed linen was soaked and had to be stripped and washed.
Next ‘test’ will be to use it while she’s tied and unable to stop it. Also to try out the “remote from anywhere in the world” app on my phone. Which strangely has more settings!? And to fk her while it’s in her. It’s designed for that, want to see if I fit.
I have read that it doesn’t work for everyone, and some women have a problem with it fitting properly. But it gets two thumbs up from us!
As she evolves she does continue to surprise me. In the toys demo, they showed a set of Ben-Wa type balls and explained the benefits of strengthening Kegel muscles.
So after the We-Vibe ‘session’, I popped in the set we have and instructed her to wear them just for a short while.
3 hours later I was putting the toy box away and the balls weren’t there. I asked her where they were, she was still wearing them! Above and beyond my instruction! She said one kept sliding out and they weren’t comfortable to sit with, and that she couldn’t really feel them when walking around, so we have to work on that. But she wants to wear them. The woman who was a ‘starfish’ in our previous marriage!
We are in a completely different situation from this time last year. We had a ‘tiff’ Saturday morning, before we went. Before, that would probably have meant hours or days of sulking, sniping. But we quenched the heat, talked it through and moved on, to have an awesome day.
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