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Salutations…
I am here because my wife is a sub-brat. We have been together over 13 years. She recently confided in me about her sub-brat tendency. It was an eye-opening revelation that explained years of pain and confusion for both of us.
My wife recently caught me talking to a sub (little) at my job that had adopted me as her pseudo-Dom. It was a conversation based relationship only. I had confided in her about some curiosities I had about BDSM. I slowly discovered that I was supposed to be a Dom. It was something I never realized before, and knew nothing about.
I wish it had not happened the way it did, as it caused distrust and strife between me and my wife. We both have a history of discrepancies against each other -physical and otherwise. We have managed to stay together through all of it.
I hope that knowing her needs, and her knowing my desires will lead us to an era of victory in our marriage. I need her to trust me again, and I need to learn when she is in need of discipline and attention when she is behaving badly or aloof.
This is the first site that I found that gives me hope in not having to do this alone.
Thank you
Eric
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2 Replies
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Welcome aboard! This website has been a great resource for me. There is a lot of forum posts that are eye opening. It’s really nice to hear things from the first hand perspective of active doms. The d/s dynamic is a transformational force. Hopefully, it can have the type of effect you are looking for. We have bee actively pursuing this lifestyle for about 6-7 months now. Our relationship is totally different. I’m more in touch with myself than I’ve ever been. We have more trust and communication than we ever thought would be possible. We’re not scared to be honest anymore. It stills seems insane sometimes. Best thing that ever happened to me/us.
Best of luck to you!
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Eric,
Welcome aboard,
This is the first site that I found that gives me hope in not having to do this alone.
You are definitely not alone…
Mr Fox
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