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Rewinding
Hi Everyone,
Well I can say that I am glad to have found this site. Have learned a few things already and I’m sure there is more to learn with all your help as well.
heels and I have been together for nearly 18 years (married for 14.5). Started playing around with bondage after about 3 months together (I don’t know what sort of sick puppy she thought I was at the time LOL) D/s wasn’t really on my radar then – bondage was just something I liked the look of. I’m not really a controlling type of guy – at least I thought.
Nearly 2 years ago after a few fits and starts with online D/s heels and I decided to try a D/s relationship. She had been chatting in a lot of D/s rooms online (and no she has NOT read 50SOG – story of O is more her thing). She tried an online Dom, but that ended badly for her and after I picked up the pieces, she asked me to be her Dom.
D/s has been difficult for me. I still struggle with seeing myself as a Dominant, but I’m trying to get better. We have not had much success over last 2 years, due mostly to me lack of knowledge and long work hours. I lost my job recently which solved the long work hours and made me realise that I had been neglecting my family somewhat.
heels was almost at the point of calling our D/s relationship off, but we have talked and decided that we are going to rewind and start again. Take things slowly and build up to a level where I am more confident in myself as a Dom and she is getting the level of control that she desires.
With this sites help I’m hoping that we can grow our D/s relationship and make us even stronger.
Thanks,
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2 Replies
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MrTopend,
Welcome aboard Sir…
‘rewind’ you will often hear me telling everyone that this journey is a series of ebbs and flows. There will be good times and there will also be challenging times.
I am a big believer in taking it slow and building a solid foundation. Almost everyone follows the same scenario of taking a few steps forward and then taking a step back to regain their footing.
You must have a strong foundation for that step back…
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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Welcome to the Den!
There is a lot of good information here that is more grounded in the real world D/s-M than most other sites.
Glad you found us!
The Hunter
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