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Ready to Begin My Journey
My submissive recently introduced me to the concept of dominant/submissive, and after discussing it with her, we both decided that it was in the best interest of our relationship to have established rules of behavior, punishments, and rewards.
My submissive is a strong woman, but very mouthy and disrespectful at times. She hates being disrespectful to me most of all, but has had problems controlling it in the past. She wants to be submissive and wants to learn to be obedient.
Currently, we are both in the military, and she, being my junior, is naturally used to showing respect to me in a workplace setting. In our personal life however, she has had difficulty doing this. In order to strengthen our relationship, she introduced me to the concept of the dominant/submissive partnership. She has wanted, for many years, to be in a relationship in which she shows deference to her lover, but due to her past partners’ weak willed natures, has become “locked” into making decisions and steering her relationships.
We met on a deployment to the Middle East, and she was taken by my natural leadership and forceful management of her and others under my authority. After telling me that she finally found a man that can dominate her, she clued me into her interests in becoming my submissive. After researching this lifestyle on my own, I have to say that I am extremely intrigued and wish to step forward as the leader of our relationship in both play and our lifestyle.
Being new to this community and concept, I am open to advice and techniques of all sorts and sizes. I respect my role as her caregiver and protector, and I gain pride in this role. Currently, we are experimenting in building an introductory contract to codify our desired behaviors and rules. We look forward to growing together as one in the years to come, and I’m extremely excited to begin our journey.
My sub does not have an account of subMrs, but will shortly. Once she is connected to the submissive side of our community, I’ll pass her name on to you all. Thank you, and I look forward to your advice and mentorship.
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2 Replies
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Welcome to husDOM. I look forward to meeting and chatting with you sometime. It sounds like your well equipped to begin the journey already.
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blaclabl,
Welcome aboard,
You seem to have a sound understanding of the lifestyle. I look forward to chatting with you soon.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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