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Odysseus' Introduction
My name is Odysseus and I want to thank you for allowing me to be a part of this community.
My Love and I have been very interested in this lifestyle for a few years. We have been married for 5 years and have two beautiful girls.
Our journey started like many others. My Love came to me and expressed her desire to be my submissive. At first I was apprehensive about the changes. I did not think she was capable of being submissive, nor did I think I was up for the responsibility.
I couldn’t have been more correct. Little did we know that this lifestyle could and did bring out every flaw of my personality. Instead of a loving Dominant, I was a poison, domineering, husband. I demanded things that were selfish. My Love wanted the lifestyle so badly, that she did everything I said and felt that this was as good as it was going to get.
Eventually, I realized my life was better without the D/s lifestyle and we took a year to evaluate and decide if we wanted to continue.
I am happy to say that we have worked through those issues and are stronger because of it. I am here as a newbie and I am content with that. Never again will my pride rule.
I come here for help understanding my role and ask for assistance in maintaining a healthy and continually strengthening relationship with my submissive. -
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Odysseus,
Welcome aboard,
It is no wonder to me that the ‘lifestyle’ brought out and fostered many negative attributes in you as a dominant. Almost exclusively online the information available is much more Domineering than Dominant.
That fact that was the catalyst for our communities. They began for lk and I to archive our journey for ourselves. We knew that we would have to make it our own and create something different if we wanted our lifestyle to be sustainable.
You may not realize it right now as you have been humbled by your past experience, but you will have a valuable perspective to share with others.
Sharing past experiences and wisdom helps everyone, including myself, the ability to see our D/s-M lifestyles with more clarity.
I look forward to chatting with you online soon.
Best wishes
Mr Fox
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Powerful first post. Welcome. Glad you found us.
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