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Novice Dom, Experienced Husband
Greeting All,
My name is Fred, Husband, Father and New Dom. My wife Freddie and I literally just started this. It is definitely an adventure for us, and we are enjoying it. We have been together 22 years and Married 19 years. We sought out advice and help through various sources that truly were no help at all. In a last ditch effort we found HUSDOM and it has been by far the best thing, not only for me but Freddie as well. We have children, and having NOSEY kids is a challenge. I continue to learn more and more every time I open this site and am truly excited to learn from each and every one of you.Thank you for a great place to learn and Grow!
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Fred,
Welcome aboard!
Children effect every single dynamic, relationship, whether we care to admit it or not. We usually begin to put the children and basic survival ahead of our core relationship, which is perfectly natural.
In a real life relationship we need to figure out a realistic way to keep our dynamic in the forefront of our day to day activities.
I believe that you will find a lot of value here at husDOM. I also believe that you and your experiences will be a great resource to others as well.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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Mr. Fox
you could not be more correct. The relationship I have with Freddie has been great however, its been all about our children. I have sat back and watched my friends and family members get divorced from their wives/husbands for years now. I attribute the failures in their relationships to, forgetting to take care of their spouse. its easy to do. Freddie and I don’t want that. she is my best friend.
We just realized in the last month or so, that we have always been D/s, we just never put a name to it or never knew we were doing it. So in the last 3 years we have been exploring and enjoying each other more. This last week however, I laid out the rules.
Let me tell you, She has been as giddy as a school girl. she is very into her role as a sub. I’m loving it.Again, thank you for a great place to learn and grow, without the feeling of being judged. my experiences here thus far have been great.
Fred
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Fred,
The non judging environment is a huge benefit. My gratitude to yourself as well for having he courage to participate.
I am not sure if you had a chance to read my story (https://husdom.com/husdom-2/) It is much as you have described…
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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Mr. Fox,
I just read your story. I have to tell you how very happy I am that my wife and I never got to that point. Every time we watched our friends and family go through hard times that ended in divorce; we said not us! which would end up opening the channels and some how guiding us to where we are today. I am very happy for you and your Mrs. for being able to get through the hard times. it seems that people anymore take the easy left instead of the hard right…
Besides, if you hadn’t had all that wine in the heat of the day, We wouldn’t be having this conversation on this website! My hats off to your Mrs. for having the courage to tell you what she wanted. Its never easy to talk about this with someone for the first time.Well, gotta pack up my stuff so I can go home and see my Freddie. 20 hour drive starts at the end of school tomorrow at noon!
V/R
Fred
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