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New with experience
Hello to everyone… I just joined the site a few weeks ago and I’m still exploring all the information here.
We (Mio Fascino and myself) are very new to the D/s relationship. We have been married for 27 years, raised three amazing children, and are now empty nesters at 46 years old. 🙂
We have always had an active, exciting sex life. We explored the swinging thing starting about 6 years ago, and found it caused us more problems than it was worth. Then about three months ago, we decided to try the “open marriage” thing, and discovered it created many different problems. It was only three weeks ago that we stepped into the D/s realm and have found the perfect thing for both of us.
I am, like many here, a true alpha-male. I am a natural leader, without having to “prove” to others that I am. I am confident without being cocky. While raising children the last 25 years, the dominance of my personality has slowly been drained and sucked out of me. I didn’t realize it until our first scene play a few weeks ago. I had become passive and apathetic about everything, including sex. That first scene play was an “awakening” of my spirit and mind. I was able to be my “true” self, while still being able to do what I love most, please my Mio.
Mio Fascino is an amazing woman. She is smart, funny, educated (Master’s degree), sexy, thoughtful and kind. She has ALWAYS been a people pleaser, and we had been able to make it work. This new experience has changed her life as well. She is now able to be completely submissive to me (naturally), and then not be that way the others times in her day, such as with friends, employees, family, etc. It has been a truly “freeing” experience for her.
We hope to meet many of you over the next few years. It’s always good to connect with like minded people and share experiences, and get validation about life choices.
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