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    Posted by domintcmi on at

    Hello Fellow Doms. This is my first attempt at this on a full time basis. My wife surprised the hell out of me when she said she wanted to be a submissive. I was not expecting it by any means of the imagination. This has led to numerous conversations and we have drawn up a contract and will be doing a signing ceremony actually tonight at midnight. This is a new challenge for me because it is my wife that will be my sub. But she is also my wife with a house full of kids and responsibilities. So, when I came across this site, I thought BINGO this may be the thing I need to help me sort through all of this.

    We have discussed where both of us want this to go. I am saying we start with the first step and then can worry about where it ends up when it ends up there. I hope that is the right attitude to have. She wants to take this much father than I could have ever dreamed of her wanting to take it so this is very exciting for me.

    So, any advice or suggestions would be great!! Thank you for having me as a part of this group!!

    husdom replied 9 years, 8 months ago 2 Members · 3 Replies
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  • husdom

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    Domintcmi,

    Welcome aboard!

    I would love to learn how your contract signing ceremony went… I am sure that it was fantastic…

    as for advice, there is a great wealth of knowledge here within the Fox’s Den Community. If you have a specific question or are looking for specific ideas it may be beneficial to post the question in the forum.

    I look forward to getting to know you better…

    Best wishes,

    Mr Fox

  • domintcmi

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    It actually went very well. I have to say I was very very impressed with how willing she was about everything. It then led to a four hour conversation about where we would like this to go and I have to again admit, i am shocked. This is going to be a very exciting adventure. I just need to make sure I stay on top of things and make sure she continues to enjoy the time.

    • husdom

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      Domintcmi,

      That is great news…

      You are certainly off to a good beginning. Remember how much you have learned during your first discussion and realize that you will need to continually communicate to the same level during your entire journey in an effort not lose sight of her desires and expectations along the way…

      During our first few conversations, lk and myself, I kept thinking that she couldn’t possibly know exactly what she was saying or asking for and that when she was better educated on the subject that she would feel much differently. To my complete surprise she already had a very good understanding. And much like you I couldn’t have ever have imagined it on my own.

      Best wishes,

      Mr Fox

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