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  • New to this – lifestyle/site/forum

    Posted by djjf on at

    I am just beginning my journey into this lifestyle and am trying to learn all I can to handle my sub the way she needs me to handle her. I plan to be on this site and around a lot!

    husdom replied 8 years, 9 months ago 4 Members · 6 Replies
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  • Unknown Member

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    Welcome! Generally advised to start with Mr Fox’s blogs oldest to new. Then ask questions as you wish on chat or here in the forum. It’s a rewarding journey. Glad you found us.

  • djjf

    Member
    at

    Thanks! I look forward to learning, growing and earning her submission.

  • husdom

    Administrator
    at

    DJjf,

    Welcome aboard,

    You already have the right idea regarding D/s when you make the statement ‘earning her submission’. submission is something that has to be earned…

    Best wishes,

    Mr Fox

  • djjf

    Member
    at

    Thanks Mr Fox! I appreciate that vote of confidence. I honestly never knew I had any of this in me, until she opened by eyes to it. It’s interesting – my only fear/hesitancy is giving her pain, as in more than just a little bit. Is that a simple, need to get used to it, sort of thing?

    • steps

      Member
      at

      Just a thought DJjf: there is not specific amount of pain that makes your sub a sub, you a dom, or your D/s… D/s. In fact, there could be no pain whatsoever involved.

      • husdom

        Administrator
        at

        Mr,

        Excellent point sir!

        Mr Fox

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