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New to the Scene
Hello fellow husdoms. My name is Ciaran. I am new to this culture, I am timid to jump into the deep end. My wife who is very excited to do this reads stuff on it constantly.
We’ve been doing it for two weeks now, she says I am a natural and often questions if I have done this before. I haven’t. My wife goes by bug, she’s had that nickname since we meet, I even got her a necklace of a lady bug.
I will apologize in advance for my English even though it’s my first language it’s hard for me to do.
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3 Replies
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Ciaran,
Welcome aboard!
I didnt jump into the deep end either. I needed to be certain that I didnt do anything that may cause jeopardy to the dynamic or our relationship. I personally believe that the best way to emerge yourself into the lifestyle is to begin by doing some research. Read some blog posts to allow yourself a more clear picture on what a healthy D|s-M relationship should look like. The posts certainly arent a road map by any means. No such map exists as every relationship is unique within itself.
After you have same basic knowledge the forums and the chat will be invaluable tools.
I have found that those that participate more are the ones that seem to have a smoother transition into the lifestyle.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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Ciaran,
Welcome to the neighborhood!
I am Mr.Cain and have been a member here for almost 3 years.I to did not jump right into the deep end.I believe you are wise to take it slow and find your way.I have found this community to be the best resource for our journey.(my submissive is Veruca) We looked around and found the married and monogamous views here our best fit.My V. is vary active on submrs and that is helpful in feeding her mindset.I would suggest you encourage your bug to jump in over there.I agree with everything Mr.Fox said in his welcome to you.
I look forward to hearing more about your journey.
Sincerely,
Mr.Cain -
Welcome to our little community. Lots of helpful information around here. And feel free to ask anything.
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