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New to the community
Hello to everyone I have always been interested in the art of dom/sub or lifestyle if you will. Never was really sure how to go about it, so any and all help is welcome. That makes me a newbie I suppose. I came upon this site quite by accident as I was just seeing if there was anything to help me in my journey that would also help me to get my wife involved and how to do so. Baby steps I guess. Well here I am and I’m glad I found it. Still taking it all in. Please any suggestions on how to start or where to start and move forward in this journey would be greatly appreciated. Thanks and hope to learn and get to know you all.
Gbreak
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Welcome Gbreak!
Some of us here have been in it for the long haul, others are quite new, some of us are bedroom only, some are 24/7 D/s or somewhere in between.
There are a lot of great perspectives if you’ll read and listen.
I’m pretty new myself to this site, and to D/s in general. I’ve found LOTS of inspiration in Mr Fox’s blog (there’s a tab to only show posts for free members. That’s where is start if I were you) and a pretty varied selection of topics in these forums.
Browse, read, and prepare yourself for a lot of lifestyle/commitment changes if you want to be the best Dom you can for your partner.
I’ve found so far that even though my Little Peach has much more responsibility/care areas on her end of our partnership, that I have been the one that has had to go through the most emotional/mental growth so far in our journey. It’s been very tough in some cases (I realize I’ve been a pretty lazy husband in some respects now :)) but it has been VERY rewarding.
Welcome and good luck!
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Hello Gbreak & welcome. It’s an inward journey to be the best we can for our woman. You mentioned something about getting your wife involved & “how to”. I’d say capture her mind and tap into what I call, her “inner whore”. Be her James Bond but in your own way. Easy enough to tap into her fantasy’s but not simple. Honesty, integrity, and communication are KEY to a deeper relationship. Remember, it’s the journey.
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Welcome to the community GBreak. Please let us know if you have questions as you explore the site. There are a number of ambassadors on the site that are ready to help as needed. Their names end in “AMB” to help you identify them. Also, once your sub gets involved, there is a submissive only sister site (www.subMRS.com) that will help her as she starts her side of the journey.
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I would like to thank all who have replied, I have not only alot to learn but change as well. Please forgive me as it has taken sometime to reply to this still learning to balance everything time wise. Looking forward to the dom/sub lifestyle as time goes on.
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