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  • New Member – Salutations

    Posted by studman817 on at

    Greetings to all D/s,
    My alias is not meant to be standoffish, simply it has been my original alter-ego since 1979 when I first got an AOL Email account. I’m 54, married to a lovely African girl who’s family relocated here in 1999. She’s very private and understands my need to be dominate. We prefer to engage our roles in private/at home as I feel its important she feels confidence in public and we prefer the image of a power couple who see each other as equals. Currently she’s having some personal mental issues over family and self that’s interfering with our usual roles and closeness. I’ve learned sometimes one needs to apply patience as she will definitely work thru this and we will once again be “back on track”. Looking forward to reading and sharing with you as I prefer to hear from married D/s to hear how they deal with similar issues couples face. Sincerely, Studman817

    Unknown Member replied 8 years, 6 months ago 7 Members · 8 Replies
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  • Unknown Member

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    Studman,

    Welcome. I’m glad you found husDom, Mr. Fox has created a marvelous place for us married types. I hope to see you in the chat room.

    Yours,

    Boris

  • Unknown Member

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    WELCOME!!!

  • kirus60

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    Hello everyone,
    I am an aspiring new dom. i just recently found out that my wife of 6 years is into this life and needless to say feel relieved. our marriage and sex life was not what is could/should have been but has seen many recent improvements just from what i have learned from research. Quality of life is in the rise. my wife is very into her sub life and we are very excited to begin our 24/7. From what ive seen in the little time this community looks great. If any have advice tips or anything for matter i am an open book right now. Like i said new to the life and can wait to get started getting our lives back.
    thanks, kirus60

  • Unknown Member

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    Hi to everyone.
    Well i am a new dom. I have entered in to this lifestyle after some how having a discussions with my wife and discovering that she really liked it when i was in control. After further discussions on this subject it came to light that she enjoyed the fact of giving control over in all aspects of life to me. And I enjoyed being the one she looked for guidance and direction from and receiving her submission. So here we are in a D/s relationship and have seen advantages and improvements in our relationship that we believe are from entering this lifestyle.
    I am always happy to discuss and take advice on this lifestyle as to grow is to learn.

  • Unknown Member

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    Welcome all!

  • wifellover

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    Welcome to husDOM, enjoy the wisDOM!

  • greggc

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    Hi all, just started in this D/S lifestyle. My wife wants it and so do I, my issue is, where and how to begin? I’m new at this but have the desire to be the Dominate in our relationship. I would appreciate any and all pointers I can get, Thanks.

  • Unknown Member

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    The best bit of advice I can give you is read the blogs on here first ( start oldest first).
    If you have read things online you will find that the blogs on here will cut through the rubish.
    Use the chat as well. Everyone on here is very understanding and are happy to exchange information and offer advice.

    This site is one of the best I found and has helped a lot and also has given a source to share with fellow D/S lifestylers.

    Have fun

    A

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