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New (like many)
While we have been married for a while, we are new to D/s (like many here). We have intermittently flirted with it in the past to feel things out and are now moving to something more official. Hoping that this being a forum of many people who are on a path in a similar journey will provide leaning and growing opportunities for us.
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Welcome. Glad you found us. Take things slow and enjoy the ride. It’s worth it.
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Welcome,
Just ask. There will be an answer.
Regards,
WG -
Hawke,
Welcome aboard,
Participation is the best way to really engage and take advantage of the learning opportunities here at husDOM.
I look forward to chatting with you soon.
best wishes,
Mr Fox
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Thank you everyone.
There is a lot to take in here, and that is a good thing in someways. Thank you Mr. Fox for starting this, as I have noticed, like many that most resources are not catered to married couples who come into this dynamic after being married.
Ash is very interested, willing and responsive (we had a nice long chat in downtime a couple nights ago), but we are very new to making this a real D/s relationship, so lots of patience and growing to do all around.
Our 2 biggest things, are me being more consistently assertive (which I have read posts about here already, as my starting point on the site) and finding the time. We both work. We have 2 little kids. There is a lack of time and energy to be “active” all the time. I am sure this is something that people have posted about already, but there is a lot to wade through. We are no where near a TPE, so the questions become, ways to find the time, and ways to reinforce outside the bedroom, consistently.
Any direction to existing previous posts or discussions is appreciated.
Thanks,
Hawke-
Hawke,
In short… You will do fine if you keep the thought of consistency in your thoughts as you progress along your journey.
Your journey is not a race, nor is there a destination. It is all about the journey, the experience.
Keep it slow, consistent and achievable all of the time but never more so than when you first begin. Concentrate on the fundamentals.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
ps Be sure that your submissive signs up for her membership at https:submrs.com
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