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New HusDom – Best video for sub?
Hi everyone,
New here. New to Dom.
My wife is a natural sub. Always been.
Need to make the transition from vanilla to Dom. I have read a few blog posts, but if you have any must-have read for someone in my situation, please let me know.Also, what is the best online porn video that would get a sub excited?
She watches porn, and I want to randomly send her great videos, with what I would do to her.Thanks!
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Firstly, welcome!
No shortage of on-line free porn sites. I’m going to sound rude when I say google it, but Mr Fox and all have asked that we not post links to other websites, so…. google it. There’s a lot of absolute trash out there. My wife and I watched a few. Her recurring comment is that the Dom looks mean and nasty. Not loving, not caring. So, that quickly helped establish me being a caring loving guiding dominant as she is a very touchy feeling emotional person to begin with. I need to support that part of her and help it grow into part of her submission.
Watching those videos with her allowed me to gauge her reaction and to learn what not to do more than what to do to her.
Good luck! Glad you found the place.
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Welcome TomP. Like Tex said, videos can be a very insightful learing aid, we just cant post em here. Sending video links is good but, watching them with your sub and discussing them is even better. I might also recommend the Brie books. The subs talk about them on subMrs and sl and I have really benefitted from them. I listen to an audio version while commiutting. I think the first book is calle Brie learns the art of submission. Be careful though, like most romance novels the main characters are nearly flawless and can create some unrealistic expectations.
Thanatoi
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Brie book one…
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