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My wife asked for a collar
Hi there! My wife and I recently entered into a D/s relationship and it has been fantastic so far! My wife, princess2004 on subMrs, has been asking for this for maybe a year. I guess it just took me a while to wrap my head around what a BDSM relationship is all about to really be able to feel comfortable dominating my princess.
Over the last year we have worked into anal sex and about a month ago started having sex with her restrained to the bedposts. It was in one of these sessions we were going at it hard with her restrained and a butt plug in her ass that she said she wanted me to be her master and her my submissive. I told her I wanted that too and asked if I could collar her. She went nuts all of a sudden, like the best sex we had ever had at that time..
We spent the next week writing and rewriting a contract and having the best sex we have ever had, and more frequent.. I don’t remember the last time she let me fuck her three times in a week and on consecutive nights. So fast forward to my birthday a few days ago on November 16th. I had ordered her a collar from vonbondage.com and a set of ropes from twisted monk (to replace the cheap Velcro restraints we were using/breaking) and it all arrived the day before. I also wrote her a “love” letter indicating my expectations of her in our first scene and reaffirming our new relationship. The afternoon of my birthday we had our first official scene and I collared her. It was amazing. We started with spanking until she couldn’t handle it anymore and then tied her to the bed spread eagle and edged her until she was begging to cum on my cock. Again had the best most amazing sex ever!
The last week since then life happened. Work got busy, kids schedules got busy, and we were just tired. But we still made time to talk about our new found addiction and schedule a play date. On Monday we put eye hooks on the inside of our closet to make a makeshift St. Andrews cross and also made some homemade adjustable nipple clamps with some clothespins. Today (Tuesday) we had our second scene. Fucking awesome!! we were both tired and I’m not sure we were really all that ready for it but it was still the best scene yet.
So far this thing is going great and our relationship has gotten nothing but stronger and more intimate. I still struggle with the dominant thing in my head sometimes but I know with time I will get better at it. Princess loves being a sub and when we are alone continually reminds me I am in control. She is so into this she is looking at local kink/sex clubs were we can go learn and play away from the kids a few times a month. She wants to wear a day collar so we are looking for one she can wear in public discreetly so if anyone has any recommendations of some cool but discreet options I would love to here them. So far we are having a ton of fun and looking forward to what the future has in store for us.
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Hello Sir_2004,
welcome to this site. Your jounrey sounds great and you will find many that feel alike. When I got in contact with BDSM I was ashamed that it was a turn on for me. It took a while to learn that submission if granted not expected is nothing bad at all and the greatest sign of trust. That it makes her happy to be my submissive and that there is no reason why my thoughts should prevent her from feeling that.
A public collar is something my Sub wants too. For now I am blocking it to ensure we have discussed the meaning and impacts of it. We developed the idea, that she will gets a special “collar” box, from which she can choose jewelery for the day. All content of the box is “collar-meaning-type” jewelery per definition. It is not about the items themself, it is the perception that makes the difference for us.Best wishes and have fun
Peter
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