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My Journey has begun
I have started my journey of discovery.
My sub wife (luna) & I began our journey into BDSM about a year ago, as fortune would have it, a few months into our new D/s lifestyle luna fell pregnant (it was planned) and the BDSM journey was halted.
It intrigued me when luna read the 50 shades trilogy, how it affected her, stirred up emotions and thoughts within. I enjoyed how it made her take some form of control of her sexuality, turned her on in a way that she needed me to fulfill the desire the books had stirred up inside her. (I know some frown at the 50 shades reference, but it did awaken something, and I was not going to let the chance go bye)
We had played around before with blindfolds, teasing, restraints, Dildos, watched a couple of erotic movies, and had discussed openly the things that turn us on and what we might be into trying.
We had also broached the idea of me taking control & being the initiator when it comes to sex.
I wanted to explore our sexual boundaries together, which in turn I hoped would bring us closer together.
I wanted to take this journey with my love.I have always been very sexual, and always have thoughts and ideas floating around in my head, of how, when & where I can take her! I wanted give everything I am to her and in turn she would give me everything.luna agreed to take the journey with me, and gave me the gift of her submission!
I was not exactly sure where it might lead us, or what we might discover.
Our D/s relationship does not really go beyond the the walls of our home. It is our secret, something only me and my sub can share together, it is our escape from reality, time set aside just for us to be together and explore who we are.We are now back on track and more into the lifestyle than ever! I would say we have truly been into the lifestyle for about 10 Months now.In that time so much has happened. Our Relationship has strengthened, Communication between us has improved, and our sex life is amazing!
The more I read and gather information on the BDSM lifestyle, the kinky side as well as the deep connections, the more I think we have always known on some level this is something that we wanted!
I hope to grow as a person and a Dominant husband.
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3 Replies
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That was a great read! Welcome to the site. I’m still new at this with only a few weeks under my belt. Isn’t it so much fun being open about everything? It really helps the discovery phases.
What are your main kinks?
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First off, welcome to the Den!
We are all on the same journey, just different paths to our unique dynamic. Read through the blogs and forums, but most importantly I have found chat to be the best forum to resolve questions and get feedback from other Doms farther down the road.
Welcome!
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Sir2luna,
Welcome aboard sir…
I look forward to learning more about your journey…
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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