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    My introduction

    Posted by cjk on at

    My wife and I have begun exploring Dominance and submission, both in the bedroom and out. As part of our conversations, it seems that we may come to an agreement to extend it outside the bedroom, at least on a temporary basis.

    We’ve been together almost 22 years in total, and married for 15 of them. Our sex life has had its ups and downs, with us having had a few very quiet times due her to low/reactive libido. Several months back, I suggested the beginnings of a D/s dynamic for the bedroom – I was free to take her any time, and while she could decline/safeword out, she wouldn’t do that without a legitimate reason (illness, etc.) And she agreed – it took pressure off of me knowing that if she declined tonight, I could try again tomorrow with no judgement, and pressure off of her knowing that she could decline and I wouldn’t get upset. The sex started taking on a bit of a D/s vibe as well.

    Years ago, we took one of the Mojo Upgrade quizzes, we both indicated a possible interest in 24/7 with me as the dominant. She’s expressed possible interest in 24/7 since then, as well. I’m here hoping to learn to be the best dominant I can be to lead her to, and hopefully down, this path.

    I look forward to great discussion, learning, and sharing with all of the gentlemen here!

    still replied 6 years, 2 months ago 5 Members · 4 Replies
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  • havocblaid

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    Welcome CJK. Look forward to hearing from you and chatting with you. As anyone that’s been here for a while will tell you the blogs and forums are full of useful information. And the people here are also a wealth of information. Feel free to ask me or any members anything and we are always willing to help.

  • Unknown Member

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    CJK,
    Welcome to Husdom I hope you are finding the site well sir. Havoc has given you quit a bit to think about and I would suggest to take him up on his offer to participate with the other members as well. At one time or another someone has been or is in a place like you are now. No two journeys are the same but the roads do seem to come very close to one another as we pass along the road of life sir. I have found the best way to mold myself is participation, consistency, honesty and active communication. I hope to see you in chat soon if you have questions ask them that is the fastest way to gain the knowledge that you seek.

    Highest Regards,
    Grey Wolf

  • mr-greyson

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    CJK,

    How are things going? How is your dynamic going?

    Sincerely,

    Greyson

  • still

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    CJK, This site is excellent for its community alone sir. Ask anything I know I do.

    Welcome Sir

    Still

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