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My Intro
Hello all! Please allow me to introduce myself, I’m a man of wealth and taste…
Nevermind that. I always liked that song. Anyway, where was I? Ah, introductions.
My wife and I met in Jr. High, when we were both 15, across a Dungeons & Dragons table. We wound up dating through most of high school, and college. We just celebrated 25 years of marriage in January.
We got into D/s gradually. I don’t know if there was a particular catalyst. I would surmise at least part of it was my wife’s penchant for romance novels that have a D/s element. (No, I’m not referring to 50 Shades. She actually tried reading it and it was so poorly written, she only got about 1/3rd of the way through the first book before she scrapped them.) I also can’t recall the first time I really became interested in bondage porn and erotica, but some years ago, it became the thing that really interested me.
We started playing about with tying her down to the bed occasionally probably 10-15 years ago. It wouldn’t happen that often, but she got quite the rise out of it. I started buying a few more toys and we experimented with more things. Then about 5-6 years ago, she suggested we take it outside the bedroom.
Since then, we’ve worked on what that means to us. We have 2 teenagers and we refuse to involve them in our kink. So, whatever we do, has to be subtle and discrete.
We have tried things such as joining a local kink club, as well as participating in some shibari and rope classes. We’ve determined that, while I’m more open to controlled public activities, she is not. Particularly, she is not comfortable with public nudity, hers or anyone elses. We have also discovered some little things we can do to/for each other to maintain the D/s dynamic with each other.
However, we are still looking to learn more. I saw this site mentioned on a Reddit thread, along with the submissive companion site. I’ve encouraged my pet to join, but I don’t think she has, quite yet.
That’s us in a nutshell, at least for now.
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1 Reply
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Danman7,
Welcome Aboard!
The similarities among members never ceases to amaze me. LK and I have known each other since we were 11 years old and began dating when we were 15. We are a few weeks from celebrating our 25th wedding anniversary as well.
I look forward to learning more about you and your submissive as you continue your journey.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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