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  • My arrival …

    Posted by bronzemouse2003 on at

    Hello everyone. So, I’ve arrived at husDOM looking for direction.

    I’m mid-50’s, happily married for 30+ years to a wonderful woman. We relocated from our home town in Upstate New York to New England where we did not have family for support. Our journey to this point has been pretty much reactionary to events, without direction. Like most couples, we were always tired, running everywhere trying to give our children every advantage we could.

    Now as we prepare to enter the “Empty Nest” stage, I’m beginning to notice the things we missed, realizing we need to reconnect and find direction. After surfing through several D/s sites, I suggested we consider adopting this relationship.

    As you may suspect, the Mrs was/is not fully onboard, but has enjoyed following my direction by sleeping nude, wearing specific items I may select for her and obeying my rule that she neither enters or exits our vehicle without my assistance. We agreed on several hard limits – no pictures, anal or involving others (single or couples) in our relationship. Surprisingly, she seemed to enjoy a spanking one evening after forgetting the exit rule – not sure that was an appropriate punishment.

    Then I found husDOM. I think this site is more in-line with the direction I want to take the Mrs.

    I’m looking forward to connecting with everyone, learning and moving forward with this life.

    Bronzemouse2003

    Unknown Member replied 7 years, 10 months ago 2 Members · 1 Reply
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  • Unknown Member

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    It seems that most of the time, the sub approaches the Dom about this lifestyle. We’ve been married 27 years and together close to 30. I can relate to much of what you wrote. Welcome to HusDOM, glad you found us.

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