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Lupo: An Introduction
Good afternoon all! I am a 36 year old Airborne Infantryman who is currently still serving on Active Duty. I have been married for the past 16 years to my wife/sub but only recently have fully picked up and embraced fully the lifestyle. Both of us are Type-A driven people in our career fields and have been very successful at moving up and standing out above our peers. Our sex life had started getting to a point where it was the same old stuff and we had fallen into a rut because neither of us led consistently in the bedroom and work for both of us was pretty fast paced and stressful. Right around the time that 50SOG came out she mentioned to me after watching the movie together that she wanted to be dominated and that she wanted me to take charge in the bedroom and she was willing to give up all control to me. So at the time, armed with my shallow misconception of what a Dom was, I bought as crop and some handcuffs and proceeded to order her around in the bedroom when we had sex. This worked for the first 2-3 times and kind of faded out. It was a role that I had no depth for at the time and I really didn’t research or try to make myself better. Our sex life/personal relationship floundered for another 3 years with ups and downs but recently this summer we sat down and really did some honest dialogue and tried to figure out how to make things better in our relationship and how both of us could be satisfied. The D/s topic came up again and this time I agreed to give it another go and threw myself into research and developing myself to be the Dom she needed. With the help of this site and a few others, I was able to not only be able to fully come into my own and earn the title of Sir, but we have also negotiated/signed our first contract. She received her training collar and has successfully completed her training and two weeks ago she was presented with her formal collar. We are now living a full time 24/7 D/s-M relationship and we have never been a better place. My heart is fuller than it has ever been and she feels the same way. Thank you for this wonderful site and I look forward to learning from all you Gentleman. #mycupisempty My wife is already connected with SubMrs and actively participating in chats. (Bello)
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6 Replies
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Glad you found us. And thank you for your service.
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Lupo,
Welcome aboard!
You have had an interesting journey to date.
Thank you for sharing it with us here on husDOM™.
Best wishes,
Mr Fox
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Lupo,
I see you have been at this for a while. Any advice from the long from a longer term Dom? How do you keep it going?
Sincerely,
Greyson
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Lupo,
Thank you for sharing a little about yourself and how you came to D/s-M. I am very happy you found HusDom and wish you all the best as you continue to build your D/s-M dynamic.
Best Regards,
BigOne1960
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Lupo,
Just want to let you know I enjoyed reading this and say thank you for sharing.Also thank you for your service.
Mr. Cain
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Thank you sir.
Just that Thank you.
Your Post is great.Hope to able to say hi when I see you on.
Still
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